never had a girl friend

yes ive never actually had a girl friend in my lifeand im turning 18 this august 20th so its kinda gonna suck balls, but yea theres nothing really wrong with me and i have no idea why no girl really likes me i mean u guys can take a look at my pics on the site below, shit, but yea before i make even more of a dumbass of my self, im gonna shut the hell up hahahahaha.

 

it happens a lot more often than you would think, nothing to worry about dude

just try to be more outgoing and such

basically go - 'if I were a girl, what would I look for in a guy?' and be that guy

 

Its all in your mind. If you tell yourself "Girls don't like me"... they won't. You have to change your mind.

 

What the others said, but really we need more info if we're to be of any help (not that you even want help). But really, it's easy, and if there's nothing wrong with you as you say, it should be no problem. You just need to talk to girls you're attracted to, without tipping your hand too much, yet being friendly and yourself. I probably shouldn't say this, but since it's the true confessions forum, I'm not really a great socializer overall, however I've never had problems finding a girlfriend. In fairness, I'm fairly good looking and I tend to be successful in school, sports, music, whatever, so that probably helps, but honestly all it takes is releasing your inner kindness, wit, and love of life

 

You look like a cool guy.

Dude, girls don't ask guys out unless the guy completely ignores them. YOU have to go in for the KILL don't sit around and wait for them to do it. Fuck what anyone thinks, nobody is going to laugh at you for asking a girl out, you're 18, not 12. Don't be embarassed, tell some girl that you like her (whether you do or not) and see what happens.

 

I disagree with one thing the fella above me said, you shouldn't fuck with chicks minds
not only because it's absolutely cruel, but if it spreads around her friends, you may get burned

but yeah
like Moony said, confidence is a big key, even if you aren't confident, you can fool yourself into thinking you are, just by forcing optimism (worked for me at least)

most girls will only reject a guy that they absolutely do not like, and will be willing to give you a chance (especially if you push for it), so don't let rejection scare you too much

 

>never had a girl friend

So what? There are so many other ways of having fun in life...

 

Bah... me neither. You're not the only one.

 

Well at least your heart is still in one piece

 

If you're gonna ask a chick out, you've got to have SOME like for them, so telling them that you like them is not such a big manipulation. If this lazy fuck wants a girlfriend, he's gonna have to grow some balls and ask a chick out. Telling them that you like them just makes it that much easier.

 

I agree

 

18 is still young and you have lots of time to get in to the social scene. My son is 26 and still not had a serious girlfriend. Before you suggest that he is gay, let me say that his choice is to wait for the right woman, because he wishes to join the ministry and wants to make sure his "choice" does not conflict with his goals in life.

I will be happy to see him with the right girl, but frankly I think he has already avoided his first divorce simply by not getting married before age 25. So see the bright side of your situation, you are older and wiser. Confidence is the key to attract women, so whatever you excel at, find someone who shares your interest in that endeavor. If you don’t excel at anything, then find something you like and practice.

Good luck
James

 

thanks alot u guys u kinda helped alot but im going with the idea of doing something more than just asking em out really do somethin, and im not really a big pussy or anything im just in a pretty big prep school most of my life with a bunch of really rich stupid and snotty people, and as for the guys son above watch out dont want ur son to be the 40 year old virgin...

 

"I aint got time for bitches, gotta keep my mind on my motherfucking riches"

-2pac

Ive had only 1 girlfriend, which was absolutly nothing, i was pressured by friends to ask her out. So i guess were together on this one man? Who cares, nothing is as good as it seems.

 

i haven't had a boyfriend yet and i'm gonna be 18 at the end of the year...

 

Confidence is key. You have to go for it, very few girls are going to walk up and ask you out. Unfortunately, you just have to bite the bullet. I'd work on your ability to make her laugh and feel like a million dollars. Just some friendly advice. Good luck.

 

and she is cute and sexy as fuck
so, you see? nothing wrong with it

 

You say not having a girlfriend is a bad thing. Think of all the money you are saving being single, and all the time you save not watching crappy chick flicks. There are many pluses to not having a girlfriend.

 

i see alot of theards like this, so obviously your not alone

im in the same boat, only im turning 20 next month. but dont worry about it, just have as much fun as you possibliy can and be a happy go lucky kind of guy around girls. dont get all depressed if one girl doesnt recognize you, there are plenty of fish in the sea. experience what you can when you can. there are soooooo many people out there like you wouldnt believe

 

Friend of mine turning 21 in june never had gf. Waiting for the first sucks yea i can understand that. I tell ya man getting rid of the first is better though. lol