. I don't get the question. Well, I do understand it. Just -I don't get why a 36 yr. old man is asking it. Are you now coming out bi and wondering what the protocol is? Being Bi doesn't mean you're a top or a bottom, you seem to know that. Are you suddenly involved in a relationship with a man or maybe got into an argument with your lover about who will be throwing up their legs tonight? tee, he, he. What is weird, is that the bi dudes I've known were all bottoms. Because they weren't getting that at home, is how the reasoning went. But, I always guessed there were bi Tops out there somewhere. Here's a link to a recent study of chat room dudes, "Beyond Tops and Bottoms". It's all about Tops and Bottoms and the "Correlations between Sex-Role Preference and Physical Preferences for Partners among Gay Men" The study details what is the preferred "body type" for a gay male Top or Bottom. Equally interesting is the even distribution of preference, top or bottom. I always thought there were more bottoms out there. (I guess we're more aware of the competition. ) .
I guess it's ok, I though preferably dont prefer it either way, i dont see sex as the main objective, though it seems that is mostly what is discussed, all I want is a close intimate relationship that isnt driven by the persuit of banging someone in the ass.
It's OK with me. There are plenty of us out there who don't like anal sex top or bottom. The question really ought to be whether you can life a happy and loving life.
Count me in that category. I don't want anything to do with anyones butt, and no one is doing anything to mine!
Likewise - I've never seen it as some psychological hang-up or anything, I just don't fancy taking ( makes the eyes water ) or giving ( the one time I did was just...nasty...which was a pity since the guy in question was actually extremely hot otherwise. I find imagination and energy more than make up for a lack of anal action.
Anything goes... just as long as you're in a happy relationship and that... Here's a question - if your partner didn't want you top, would you split up? If yes, then that's probably not a good thing. I have no experience of being a bi man, so I honestly know NOTHING about it :tongue: so please don't bash me for making judgements or anything. Love your sig by the way pajamas
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