I am a 16-year-old male, therefore hormones are going nuts. There's this one girl in particular, and I can't seem to get enough courage to ask her out. any one else going through this? I know I will override the fear of rejection, but when is the question.
when it feels right. just ask her out for coffee sometime, or to go for a walk, or to help you with homework for class x. if youd ont make the firs tmove its doubtful that she will so just f'ing do it already (yes im projecting my own frustrations here)
force it away 9/10 girls will not make the first move 5/10 guys won't either unless they are sure it will be well received 5/10 guys are also bitter and lonely most likely, even if the girl doesn't like you all that much, she will give you a fair chance just go up to her, be like, 'can I have your number? I would really like to go to the zoo (awesome first date) or out to lunch sometime'
aww i completely understand even though i'm not a guy... just wait for the right time. it will come. believe me
eye of the tiger man, eye of the tiger just don't let it turn into anything longterm, the fear or it gets out control and time wastes away..ive done that be real but also know how awesome kick ass you are dude and don't see flaws in yourself just truely see yourself man, it's all it takes and eye of the tiger, works everytime peace, God bless
I had a crush on a guy in school for 3 years, then when I was 15 he found out, I wanted him to know so I sorta made it accidentally obvious, and it all blossomed from there, the worst thing is rejection, but rejection is worth the chance believe me
Allthat - At age 16 you are part adult (the part between your legs for sure) and part child (half of your brain and some of your body). Since you are still growing, you are very selfconscious - "when will i get pubic hair, or a beard, or when will I lose my pimples" for example. Just accept the fact that everyone goes through this, and work through it. Rejection is a part of life, but those of us who are successful just move on after a rejection. There can be many reasons why a girl rejects you - she is in her period, she already has a boyfriend, she likes girls better, or is not yeat ready for dating, for example. So just do it - go up to her and say you want to get to know her better and invite her for an fter schol coffee or soda. There is a lot more to a relationship than looks and your persnalities have to mesh for a relationship to work. Report back on how it works.
