OK I just have a quick question but first I kinda wanna explain this whole situation. A few months ago, my husband attempted to find his real dad and he had to call his mother to ask her something about where he used to live and she freaked out over it so he stopped looking. I knew he was upset so a while after that I picked up where he left off and now I know Ive found him but I dont know what to write to him. So what do I say? How do i begin a letter to him?
JMO is you don't write him a letter. I would feel betrayed if somebody contacted my father w/o my knowledge. I would mention to him that you believe you found his father. What he does with that info is up to him.
Well, if he knows then why not let him make the big move? He may be scared but it sounds like something he needs to do with the support of you....
