I have a question for the women about clitoris size. When I was younger, before puberty, I was the same as any other girl, just interested in girly stuff. Then when puberty began I was really apprehensive about all the changes that occur to the body and all the emotional stuuf that goes with it. But I talked about it with my friends and mum amd aunties and they assured me it was only transitional and they gave me lots of support. As is often the case I compared the physical changes in my own body with other women of the same age. Sometimes with my girlfriends in self examination and other times noticing the difference in places like the changing rooms at the gym or pools. The biggest change in my body that causes some embarrasment for me is the size of my clitoris. It is very prominent and has a large hood, about the size of last section of my index finger, and I have small labia minora which makes my clitoris and hood look enormous. When I am aroused, obviuosly it grows somewhat. I am very much into health and fitness and go to the gym and swim at the local pools almost every day. I get changed under my towel when there are others in the changing rooms as I am embarrased about my 'size'. I have had comments about being 'hung' and have had many women staring at me so now I just cover up. I also use a pad in my bathing suit so that mt 'bulge' is less prominent. I guess my question is, are there any women on this forum with similar physical properties and how have you dealt with the emotional issues of being different. I look forward to any replies.
you might get a few more responsess in gentialia section in love and sex that said, i think the other women are just insecure, but so are you by letting them gt to you... why does what they say matter to you? youre the one who should decide what is and isnt important to you. you cant change your clit size and hey, just makes it easier for your partner to find woohoo!
i've got a package that looks like i stuff a sock down my pants, it's ridiculous. but i deal with it, buy the clothes that don't highlight it. everyone's got something to deal with, this is yours. don't be embarassed, but if you are, dress discreetly. no big deal. it doesn't make you a freak or anything, it's just something you have to deal with when you don't want people to focus on your sexual organs all the time. some women have ENORMOUS breasts. they have to deal with just as much crap, if not more, since there's nohiding that ever. you'll be alright.
relax, its perfectly normal, we are all built slightly differently, I will agree with the boob thing, being somewhat endowed, I know how embarressing it can be to stand out in the crowd, jealousy, rudeness, etc, but rise above it, I hated my boobs for years, but now they are part of me and I dont care what anyone else thinks of them. You will be suprised that if you accept it and carry on completely normally just how many people will treat you completely normal and not even notice!
I think that right there is the key. I have larger than average labia minora, and it really used to bother me. And when I let it bother me, that seemed to open the door for other people to take notice and make comments. (and by other people I'm talking about guys I was with) Once I stopped letting it bother me and just accepted that that's what I look like and unless I want to shell out a few thousand for labiaplasty that's how I'm always going to look, no one has taken notice or made one single comment since. It's that confidence thing. If you're obviousy insecure, other people with automatically translate your big clit as something to be ashamed of, since you yourself are ashamed of it. If you're secure and confident about it, people will take notice and think it's not something to give a second thought to since you yourself don't seem to care. People are easily manipulated with the littlest bit of effort.
I have a pretty similar problem. As long as you can be comfortable with it, it's not important the reactions you get from other people. And remember, when you're self-conscious about something, it seems like EVERYONE'S looking and staring... but most of them aren't. Really.
