Gettin my girl to orgasm

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by StonerBill, Mar 13, 2007.

  1. StonerBill

    StonerBill Learn

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    I cant seem to do it. when i get her to a certain level of arousal she will not let me do anything except fuck her. i cant last long enough to take her all the way, if fucking her is how to do it. but i think if i stiulated her clit long enough it might work. the problem is - when i do that, she twitches wildly and i cant hold her still enough to get a continuous rhythm going. i drive her craziest when i have my penis inside her when im also touching her. do yous think that if i just kept it up, she will come? i just feel.. insubstatial.. even though she reports loving sex. she always wants more. i can never feel like ive pleasured her enough
     
  2. lindseybug

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    you probably pleasure her fine.
    try doggy and rubbing her at the same time? i found that that got me close enough to climaxing because i don;t get anywhere unless he's in me but he's never in long enough to make me burst. practice lasting longer
     
  3. Cutted

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    StonerBill - 50% of women cannot get an orgasm from intercourse, and many of those who can need manual stimulation of the clitoris at the same time. It is not you, it is the way she is built. And perhaps 25% of women never have an orgasm!

    Women get clitoral orgasms and g spot orgasms - check out my other posts on g spot orgasms, or PM me for specifics if you cannot find them.
     
  4. jbones23

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    From what I'm told, that statistic seems to be relible Cutted. My girlfriend has had a lot of sex before I started to date her and (according to her) I gave her, her first orgasm. But Bill, if you're able to, try to have sex with her a second time ASAP. I do that with my girlfriend when she doesn't orgasm the first time around. She is still hot from the first time and usually orgasms for sure. But, if that doesn't work out try switching it up from a slow pace to a fast pace and repeat that. Hope that helps.
     
  5. StonerBill

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    yeh im thinking of gettin some viagra and pleasuring her until i can pleasure her no more
     
  6. Cutted

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    Stoner Bill- at 19 you don't need Viagra. You are at the top of your game at that age (it is all downhill after that - women don't reach their peak until they are about 40 - it is not fair). Try a half hour of slow foreplay of all types that she likes before you enter her.

    And check out my other recent post about a recent London, England study about 4000 female twins and their responses regarding vagina and clitoral orgasms. Many women just are unable to get an orgasm from intercourse alone, and it is heredity. But keep trying.
     
  7. AkSledder24

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    Tell her to rub her clit while you fuck her when shes about as close as you normally get her. Or eat her out and finger her g spot slowly at the same time...maybe grab her throat with your free hand and make sure you tell her how gooood she tastes....being in a real love relationship works miracles for orgasms too...ive had my wife up to 20 so far in a session, and having 3 to 4 is average. Im 28, been married 10 yrs though and i know what that girl likes...Try to become a professional at your particular woman, not focusing on basic knowledge on all women, know what I mean?
     
  8. Modern Hippy

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    OMG Aksledder, can you talk to my husband?
     
  9. sigh...

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    Quit wasting valuable time! Get a good vibrator, a good lube, and use both. Have her hold the vibe on herself while you are in her, use some lube to rub around on her ass and look out. ;)
     
  10. Gattaca

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    Wow man. The most I got my girl was up around 10. By the 3-5th orgasm though, she's usually begging me to stop because she's sweaty and exhausted. But it's so hot when she comes, I just can't stop.

    To the OP: Ultimately her orgasms are her own responsibility. Don't feel upset because she can't get off from sex. Many women can't.
     

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