marijuana screws up my relationship

So what your saying is, his g/f might see this post, realize shes a slut, and jump off a bridge? or go into refugee hiding?






























Scary stuff

 

well you have the balls of a newt you maggot-cum-sucking, ****-faced, dildo-breath, anus of gorrilla!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MUHAHAHAHA..........A....... A

 

just kidding...

 

Dammit!...............

 

well she might yes but no that wasnt the point i was trying to make. i was trying to make the point that all of you who think that there is nothing wrong with using hateful words, i disagree.... you can really hurt peoples feelings that way and most of the time it isnt deserved with the intensity of the connotation that goes along with the word.. which is of course relative but unless a person is desensitized the receiver of the word tends to feel the word alot stronger than the person giving it.. which sucks ass. anyway, i just hate the word slut and think its rarely deserved. unless people are using it in a jokingly way or something... anyway nevermind cuz i see that noone is really taking me seriously here so im wasting my words.

 

I see your point, but why take up for someone like this? Yes its true we don't know both sides, but look at the situation, his best choice would be to run FAR away from that girl. Joking never hurts anything.

 

Im not blaming thigns done under influence, cuz i beleive under marijuana you can be perfectly niormal, im blaming the desire people have to smoke, and to get it, and the love they have for it, and how soemtiems i feel like im less important to her than a plant that grows in the fucking ground.

 

I think you should tell your story to www.freevibe.com

 

My Anti Drug: My Girlfirend is LOOOOOOOSSSSEEEEE

 

why the hell does everyone think shes being unfaithful just caus she had a guy stay over? arent women allowed to have male friends?

ok if you cleared up whether youd asked her not to smoke and she went ahead and did it that would be different. you cant expect her to read her mind tho.

this is such a big deal over nothing. she jsut wanted a new friend to stay over and have a smoke.

you see, you dont make her stoned. weed does. so when she wants to get stoned, shes not jsut gonna come to you and have a nice sober night, shes gonan get stoned. you cant say jsut caus shes getting stoned and having a good time, it means shes doing it in preference from being with you.

i dont think youve told the whole story, and regardless, your bitter of the fact that shes havig fun smoking and your not. if you were smoking too and the guy had come over, youd be chill with it, youd be cool, but caus yur not lightin up you see it as a huge sin to socialise.

grow up!

 

He kinda sounds jelous of his girls fun if you ask me. Theres other ways to get high besides smoking pot if thats whats stoping you.

 

i dont know, it plainly sounds like she dosnt give a fuck. seriously, how are you gona go to a party, and then leave your bf for an hour with some other guy? then have some guy sleep over?

i think its a serious lack of communication

 

having partner doesnt mean you have to base your existance around them! cmon we dont live in the 19th century here. an hour at a party could be nothing if its big. especially if your toking. Parties are for socialising not sitting around sober with someone. jees

 

Malina, Marijuana doesn't do that to anyone. It doesn't inebriate you to the point that you have no universal morals. Marijuana lowers inhibitions, it does not completely stupify the user. I agree with the guy who said that if a girl will cheat while high, she'll cheat while sober. She'll do it with more skill, she'll be incognito about it, but she'll do it. Marijuana doesn't put you in such a state that you can't make choices that you would find morally sound in a sober state.

In this instance, I think slut is very appropriate. Why? Because a slut is slang for a prostitute, and a prostitute is a woman who sells her body to men for money. When you take away the money aspect, you simply have a girl who has sex with several different men. I think that this girl falls very aptly under this definition. Although, I wouldn't go as far as to call her a slut; I'd think she was a slut, but there is no need to call her a slut I'd just leave her. Just leave her ass, man. Why do you care about her? She's obviously morally indifferent toward you, which shouldn't fly in a relationship. I think that you're a child for blaming Marijuana for this problem. Typical cop-out. I've been high most of the time for 6 years and yet I've maintained an mid-level grade average in highschool/college, and I've never cheated or vandalized or done anything immoral while on Marijuana, even when I wasn't at all tolerant to the substance. Learn to deal with your problems in a mature and responsible way and stop blaming substances for your problems.

By the way, like Stonerbill said, you should've clarified. Are you even certain she cheated? If you don't know if she cheated or not, maybe you should talk to her first. It's fine for a girl to go hang-out with people for an hour without her boyfriend while at a party. If it were just her and that guy in the room for an hour without you, though, I think it's pretty safe to assume that she's fucking him.

 

Pot=still good

Girlfriend=rotten

 

Moral = Dump her, there are tons out there.

 

i love you for that comment and the sonic youth picture

 

Depends on what's really happening. Is she cheating? Is she deliberatley trying to make him jealous? Is it all in his head? Did the Kennedys really have something to do with Marilyn's death?

Hmm...

And I can't believe Kim from Sonic Youth is being called "preppy"!! I'm not even going to bother fully explaining why that's a stupid thing to say. Just do some web searches on Kim Gordon and the history of Sonic Youth. She's been rocking since before 1980 and she's always made her own path both in music and fashion!!

 

haha, yeah. "Prep" went out with high school. I don't hear it in college. Preppy really means that you're preparing for ivy league school, anyway. And in consideration to that original definition of "prep", I'd have to ask,... whoever said that Harvard guys can't play music? You don't have to "look the part" to play music. That's a pretty stupid idea.

 

Point blank and simple:
She's not a match for you, seeing as its this bad where you gota post it and start a whole thing on it. Drop her, let her go, there's millions of others.

You'll feel better. If you have doubts, she's not the right one. Serious.

You can't be with someone YOU DONT TRUST!!!!