there's some one who's playing with my head, making me think I'm mad and paranoid, i know it's him, because in the past when he's twisted what I've said and I've had whitnesses, but now he's manipulating those whitnesses. I don't know what to do any more, I've tried to stay away from him but he keeps clawing his way back into my life, making friends with my friends, applying for a room in the shared house where I live. I use to ignore him and just say 'he's dellusional', but it wont blow over and he wont let go. I'm really scared of him, he has a sort of split personality, ones really nice that he shows to the people he's manipulating, the other's violent and scary, but people who havn't seen it wont believe me. I don't know what to do, I just want him to leave me alone. one of the 'mutual friends' said it was all in my head, but when I asked her what was all in my head she couldn't reply. I'm at a loss, can any one help?
i talked to the landlord so he cant move in and when the contract expires I'm not telling anyone who knows him where i'm going. I cant get a restraining order on hearsay though. He's just changing the past right in front of me, I know he's delusional, but no one else believes me, he told them i was making it up
Cold, all I can say is this person sounds like a social psychopath. I have met many a control freak in my time but not one as whack as the one your talking about. It really annoys me people don't see through this sort of thing, when its blatantly clear to them. Psycho manipulators have many a tactic of wriggling into your networks and twisting things round (like you say people are questioning you) try watching the film 'cable guy' with jim carrey and you'll see what I mean. There is no easy solution, other than to minimise contact and whatever you do, DON'T criticise this person to anyone, as they will see you as the 'bad guy'. If shit really does get to you, I'm afraid the good guys always lose, so maybe you should think of moving away from the place?
thank you, I plan on moving as soon as my contract expires. I was too suprised to do anything when it happened, I never thought there were people like that in the world
Ive met people like this before, He's obviously obsessed , moving is not the answer. He will probably find you in any case , violence is never (normally) the answer, but you need to get some one to give this guy the beating of his life, he is one of those people who will only get the message when its beaten in to him.
Buy yourself a fire arm. Show him that you don't want him around, and protect yourself. If he ever comes in to your home unwelcomed, put the gun to good use.
i dont think that would work on this guy, i meen this guy actualy got a room in the same house as her, creepy.
