I want to tell my mom that I smoke weed but I need help from you guys

Ok so I want to try to convince my mom to get me a vaporizer. I want to tell her that it wont do any harm to my body and that it simply extracts the THC from the weed. But I'm afraid that if I tell her she will freak out and think im a druggy. What do you guys think? I'm afraid of getting caught with a bong someday (and I probably will) so help me out peeps!

 

id say personally just keep goin about your buisness as usuall, save up for a cheaper but still decent vaporizor ie. Vapirbros etc.

and just keep respecting your mom and let her find out gradually, or when an opportunity provides itself, coming straight out unless you are confident in the way she will react could have more harm then good, so just go about your ways and things will fall into place

and i'm really hoping u arent actually 26...

 

dude..
you're 26.. buy your own and spare your mom the news for now.
especially if you're a "potheadnoob"

 

hes not 26 another kid lying

 

I'm not 26 >_> I'm 16. I only put that because I never put my real age, that only gets u less privilages. But disreguard my age for a minute, what should I do?

 

I would only advise telling her if you're pretty sure of the outcome. I was certain before I told my mom that she'd be cool with it, but if there's a chance she'll freak it's probably not a good idea for either of you.

 

so she still hasn't the slightest knowledge of you smoking? AND while coming out to her you want to ask her to buy your paraphernalia? LOL

thats like coming out of the closet then asking if they can give you a ride to the gay bar.

but seriously, do you live with your dad? or do you think he'll kill you worse than your mom? or do any of them smoke/did smoke? give us more details man!

 

Well we've had talks about drugs before. Not about me doing them, just like how stressful school was and its really hard to resist how tempting drugs were. She said she understood. But then another day we were talking about smoking (my dad smokes cigarettes) and I said "Mom you think I'll be smoking like dad when I grow up?" and she said "No you shouldn't even get into the habit."

So I have mixed feelings. What confuses me even more is that we are from Greece and she said she will let me try some when we go there for vacation (but only in a drink form, shes against smoking anything) and said the stuff here is too potent and that I will die if I try it.


lol confusing :[

 

dude seriously, if ur parents trust you, as in actually trust u and let u go out without really questioning where ur going or who ur gonna b with, then dont fuck it up. my advice to anyone like that is to be even more careful with their weed and their smoking because once u get caught once, theres no way to undo that damage. your parents will always have a shadow of a doubt when deciding whether or not to trust you and they will always know the signs of u smoking. its just not a smart idea in my opinion but obviously my relationship with my parents is different from yours

 

I do live with my dad but he's an asshole. No seriously this isn't some 16 year old hating on his dad, he's an ASSHOLE. He set a fire cracker off next to my ear when I was 6 "just for laughs" and he would probably over react and call the cops.

 

that right there tells you she doesn;t want you smoking anything. vaporizors make it even STRONGER and she probably wants to wait until your 18 at least. but thats just from reading that. if you feel like it will work though, more power to ya.

 

My mom trusts me alot but she just gets kinda suspecious when I go out with people she hasn't met yet. (As in a new friend that I just made last week for example) but she still trusts me pretty much alot. Because I asked her LAST MINUTE to go to the movies with someone she hadn't even seen, and she said yes. I dont know though, that's what I'm worried about, me losing her trust.

 

Also, unlike most teenagers who seem to hate their parents, I love mine (yes even my dad even though he's an ass, he has kept me around this long so its gotta mean he has the same feeling.) So I really feel like I'm cheating my parents when I smoke and not tell them :[

 

can you maybe try to like hold ur raging hormones. because when i started smoking i felt like telling the whole world, when i started growing i wanted to tell the whole world, and about 1 week of it was hard, thinking about it yet not talking. after it gets cool. basicly if you tell them, pretty much worse case scenario would be them being total dicks to you, you not being able to smoke till ur 18, losing everything, even going into boarding/military school. or if its really fucked up foster care

 

nah, you shouldn't tell them. how long have you been smokin? they'll find out soon enough..

 

Thanks for telling methat lol. BTW I've only been smoking for about 2 weeks, so yeah.

 

only two weeks? c'mon now man! it's only been that long! that's NOTHIN! my parents found out three years after i started smoking.. just wait. they will find out eventually.

 

Trust me when I say that most parent would freak if they found out that their 16 year old was "sufficiently into drugs" that they were talking about vaporisers.

I don't believe there's any good way into that conversation unless you've slowly been dropping hints about it and you've paved the way to the converation carefully. Even then, most parents will freak I think.

 

2 weeks? Wow, I was smokin for a year before i even considered tellin my parents(their potheads too, so they never really noticed/or didnt care). I'd just keep doin what your doin...don't tell them, at least not yet, the time will come...but not anytime soon, enjoy it while you can.

 

damn i didnt even think about getting a piece until i smoked for 3 years, plus you might end up in rehab if you tell them.