met this very special guy, think i m in love, have really srtong weird feelings when i think of him. and the talking, hanging around with is good, he makes me laugh and that's really a big plus for me. but: the sex thing is not that good. we get aroused and horny and want to do it, but then it 's not as hot or good as we've hoped. he is used to girls that comes quickly, and i need a guy with a LOT patience and maybe a larger D___K. But i still love him and still want to meet him, and still feel this amazing electric feeling in my body (it's not a sexual feeling, it's something else) when i think of him. SO: i wonder, why do love and sex have to go together, always? i realize that we can have this romantic thing, and be friends and then, i could have my sex fix with some guy who is more compatible for me; and the same for him. have u ever had a similar experience?
I don't really have an experiance such as yours, but I really think you should not be in that kind of relationship. Not a romantic anything, you will hurt him, that's for sure. Maybe friends only, but not to be WITH HIM, you understand me..
Or you both can learn and adjust to each other's preferences. Obviously, he can't grow a larger dick, but he can learn to do other things. Do whatever you want, I'm just pointing out that you don't really need a separate sex partner other than your boyfriend.
Look into polyamory. I'd also say take a look into cuckolding, but if he's not into it, it would be an insult to him. Yes, you can have a loving bond with him and have sex with others, as long as both of you willing agree on this issue. All of the many forms of this fit under responsible non-monogamy. If I were in his situation, and you shared with me that a larger d__k would help you, I'd love it. I believe that anyway, so you'd make my fantasies cum true. Most men and women don't agree with this, but many people that are into swinging, polyamory, open mairrage, cuckolding, or hotwifery do understand these fantasies.
"But i still love him and still want to meet him, and still feel this amazing electric feeling in my body" sex seems so bland next to this man peace
forget about this one - of course, it doesn't have to be perfect everywhere, but part of romance is sex, and if yer not hot, yer not hot, and you won't be able to fake it forver, (and if you do manange to fake it forever, what kind of a life would that be?) you see my point? if you're having these doubts now, do yoiu think they will be any less two months or two years down the line? When your gut is talking to you like this, it's not a good move to ignore it. speaking from experince, LN
