I wonder...

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by brainstew, Feb 14, 2007.

  1. brainstew

    brainstew Member

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    I wonder, out of all the strange fetishes that people have if ther's one for me. I'm like 4'11, I weigh like 100 pounds, Im tiny and I look so innocent its hard for people to take me seriously. ARE ANY GUYS EVEN INTO THAT?
     
  2. Green

    Green Iconoclastic

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    You may or may not discover that you have a particular kink/fetish as time passes. I know I didn't know about mine at 14. It was there but I wasn't aware of it.
     
  3. ahimsa

    ahimsa Senior Member

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    Well, if they are close to your age, and they are into you, its not really a fetish.

    If its a grown man that finds you attractive, its pedophilia, which is is a crime IMHO.

    Anyway, I don't think you should be worrying about who finds you attractive and who doesn't. You have a lot of maturing and discovery ahead of you. I'm sure you will find people who adore you and find you terrribly attractive for who you are.

    Peace
     
  4. Lodui

    Lodui One Man Orgy

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    You're still growing. If you don't think people are taking you seriously, fuck it.

    Ask yourself why do I want "insert person" to take me seriously?

    If theres a good reason, make them take you seriously.

    If not, forget them.

    People taking you seriously is overrated. If you really respect yourself, you'll naturally notice the people around you probably appreciate you.

    If you don't, then you'll keep looking for something in yourself in someone else.

    And you wont find it.
     
  5. Slothguy

    Slothguy Member

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    Guess what, you're tiny and innocent looking because you're FOURTEEN! Go play some skip rope, you shouldn't be thinking about guys having fetishes about you, you're a kid.
     
  6. Smelly Socks

    Smelly Socks is probably lurking

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    I'm only 5'2" and 115 lbs. I'm the same size I was in 7th grade.

    I haven't grown a lick.

    Most guys seem to dig on the petite ladies such as ourselves. And innocence is usually a turn on because it means you can be corrupted.

    And if they don't, who gives a flying fuck?

    You're 14, you have plenty of time to grow physically/mentally.
     
  7. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    dunno bout fettish..lol but i do like petite girls, shiort thin..its what i normaly get attracted to, but everyone hreres right, you shouldnt worry bout fettiushes & who will or wont like u, your still growing and becomming, you should just be trying to be happy with yourself the rest will work out as u grow more mature, and realize what u want and feel more secure in uyour body and with your looks and especialy your ability to attract.. thats the thing at yoursge discioveriong that yes you can attract guys, but still noyt entirely confy with that or how thatattention pressents itself. & its very easy to fall into a mindset that tricks u into thinking that eoither your not attractibve at all, or thst your only assest is your body so thats all u have going for you,/
    what u gotta realize is true attractions to personality not physique..when it really comes down to true attraction not just physical desire..
    & from what ive seen your very sweet & havgfe alot goin on in tyour mind, & your physical descfriptions adorable..i doubt you'll have any probs attrracting guys when your ready... i bet ya already got a few interested that u just dont knoiw about yet
     
  8. brainstew

    brainstew Member

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    My mom is tiny and innocent looking, shes 42. Everyone in my family is like that, I cant skip rope.
     
  9. brainstew

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    I just wanted to know coz everyone in my family like me, that is tiny and looks like they're 7 has had trouble finding someone and not that it matters that much to me but when you're in High school its rather difficult to ignore the opposite sex when everybody makes everything about them.Stop saying "you're a kid", a kid has nothing to worry about and this question is nothing, if you remember high school and being a tennager, you remember that those "kids" make everything abou the opposite sex and if you are out of the loop because of you physical appreance, unless you find friends of the same, you might as well be a nobody.
     
  10. dspiel

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    You're very right... there's a period when the opposite sex DOES matter, at least within that particular age's culture. So I understand your concern.

    There ARE guys who are very into girls who are small and innocent. I guess you could say some have a fetish for that--at least the "innocent" part. Definitely some guys like small girls. And you know, it also all depends on how you carry yourself. There are some guys who dig small girls who are shy and innocent, others who dig energized girls. Basically, any character traits that are out there, some short girls will have them.

    As far as size goes, I have a lot of trouble, cause I'm 5'1. It's damn hard to be taken seriously as a guy when you're 5'1... especially when most girls are taller than me. Not to say this is a huge problem in my life. Most of the time my height isn't at all an issue, but it's definitely a factor relevant when it comes to dating.
     
  11. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    My ex is 4'11, and she'll be 26 this year. My fiance is only five feet tall. I like petite girls. I don't know if that counts as a fetish. But I do know that there are guys who like petite girls.
     
  12. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

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    Well, there's definitely a following for tiny fourteen year old girls, if that's what you're asking.

    Go to a Slayer show. You'll find some fans right quick.
     
  13. brainstew

    brainstew Member

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    lol ok.
     
  14. DirtyYoungBastard

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    Stay 4'11" and 100lbs for the rest of your life and when you're old enough, you'll have guys breaking your door down to shag the daylights out of you. The guys you're probably around now are just learning to talk to girls, let alone be intimate.

    Short girls are freakin' hot. Even if they got a little bitta meat on em. Nuf said
     
  15. Kaiistrippy

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    just dont do what some of the 14 yr old girls i know do: become so desperate to not looo like small 14yr olds so shave their heads and wear latex whilst making out with as many ppl as possible.

    stupid whores lol
     
  16. maskan

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    lol

    Fucking right, brother:p
     
  17. lionman80

    lionman80 Member

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    At 14. You need to enjoy your childhood. It will be over in a couple of years. Guys should be out of sight and out of mind for a couple years at least.
     

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