hi,.. there's a girl at school who i really like, i have never met her and i don't think she knows who i am either. i've been trying to get her attention through eye contact when i'm at the café but i don't know if she understand that i'm trying to tell her that i like her by looking at her.... and i can't just go to her and say; hello, i like you alot! can we be together?? ,.. i'm too shy and afraid to go and talk to her whatever about. i dunno what to do, i need some help???
curius bout where it was b4..lol umm sittin there starin at her too much might freak hr out..lol ok.. whereto start.. 1 thing ya like abouyt her.. her eyes her hair whatever.. just stroll on by casual & like ya hadnt even ever noticed her just be like wow you have a really nice ____(not ass or boobs think harder..smile.. even if its just her shoes..lol & then be like oops im sorry.. i just couldnt help noticing..then just say hi im..wheever the hell u r oh yea matheus.. & hell if you cant even remember who the hell u r she might think its cute..lol but just be yourself & honnest bout why u like her & find something in common to breatk the ice over.. like oh hety i see u like (music regference or whatever) theres a million reasons to say hello to any1 really & only 1 not to..fear.. ya gonna let that stop ya from sayin hi? but dont be all about hitting on her relentlessly just be yourself & talk to her then once the ice is broken u can kinda say u kno ive liked ya since the day i saw ya or whatever.. but ya gotta meeteachother b4 ya fall inj love .. so just say hi..
oh well go on with eye contact then smile to her ya can say just hello and pass by...this will intrigue her... oh you can just come up to her and introduce yourself i know it sounds like "easy to say but hard to do" but in fact i've tried everything and it works good luck
thanks for the advices, you have all been much kind ... i haven't diceded what to do yet, i tried SunShineChild's advice looking for her at myspace, but she don't seem to have one ... and now i have to decide if to go for the other advices, and if so, which one....this is so hard byt the way i got one more question, is it ok that i scanned in a pic of her from the School's Year Book to my computer so that i'll have a pic of her??? or should i wait until we meet and she gives one?? ... i hope what i did is ok, or else i can just delete it.
Matheus - the pic is OK. Why not? It is a public document. You should just go up to her and start talking - find out what she likes, and start talking about that. Or if you know one of her friends, tell the friend that you really like her and would like to get to know her better. The friend may pass this on to the girl. Showing your feelings to the opposite sex is one of the most difficult thing an 18 year old can do, because it is new and different from what you have ever done before. You have feelings of sexual arousal and "love" (really a crush at this point) for the girl, and you have to develop confidence, and accept rejection when it comes. She may reject you for many reasons, most of which are totally unrelated to you - she is in her period; she already has a boyfriend; she does not want a relationship now; she does not like boys; etc. Take a big gulp and go for it. She may be praying every night that you will come up and talk to her.....
she's always with her friends, i never see her alone so i think that they would all laugh at me if i tried to talk to her, and if i would talk to her and that would happen then i just can't go back to school anymore because that would be too much, seeing her everyday and knowing that i'm a looser
man....the same situation... the guy i have a crush on...he's ALWAYS with friends I didnt do anything for a long time waiting for him to make a first step...but in vain so several days ago i saw him alone and did it it's not that hard try it, dont think too much about the consequents, just act on impulse
i found her on Lunarstorm(a swedish community center) ,.. i'm 100% sure that it's her, so i wrote a lettet asking if she is her, on Lunarstorm its available to see if the letter you've sent been read, and she has read it but after that she went Offline without answering, i suppose that means that she don't like me... The End then.....
i don't wanna force her to answere,... she's been online lots of times now after i sent the letter and she still hasn't answered, that just has to mean the end,... i don't want it to but i suppose i have to accept it, like all the times before. after this i'm not gonna fall inlove with a girl again, i'm gonna be on my own,.... lonely,... oh, i can't take it but i have to.
From now on, wait for women to come to you. And then do something dramatic. Kiss 'em, caress their hips, bite their earlobes, I don't know. But never by any means expect anything or do things in order to get women. Let it happen by itself and let the body speak. He's your best guide. The innocence of the body is all you need.
