im a 19 year old college male with some fucked up thoughts. im going to see a psycologist soon, but for the mean time i just talk to the friends close to me. I cannot talk to my male freidsn however. I dont feel like they can listen and help me the way i need them to. The only poeple i can talk to about my problems are the women in my life, and my ex girlfriend may have saved my life. do any of you guys feel the same way? do you ladies feel one way or the other?
i talk to friends...i write a lot...u just have to know that your friends can only understand so much and everything you need to work out whatever troubles you lies within. dont worry, just because u have fucked up thoughts doesnt make you crazy. best advice i was ever told was that "crazy people dont worry about being crazy; the thought never crosses their mind." so if you're worried about being crazy, then you aren't. yea? stay strong!
I talk to whomever I've cultivated a close enough friendship where I can trust them with personal info regardless of gender. There aren't many people that close though. You might consider keeping a journal. Writing your thoughts down might help you work through things.
