Had a recent break up....well three months ago now. anyway, not over her yet, think about her everyday. She started being intemate and have sex with a new guy like 2 weeks after we broke up, that hurts alot. My closes friend has stepped up, with full knowledge of my life and who i am (i have a record of cheating on people...i know i know) still she wants to be more than just friends. The thing is I like her for her, not for her body. I'm not physically attracted to her, shes not ugly, just not my type. More than anything though i dont want to risk losing our friendship. What should i do?
Sometimes I have been attracted to my friends, but I think its one of those things which is natural, but can soon pass. Also sometimes u think u may be attracted to someone, even though u dont find them physically attractive, and u may think that this is no reason not to go out with them. But sexual attraction plays a BIG PART in any relationship. From what u have said u do want a relationship, as it is natural because u have just had a break up, but dont go straight into the first one which comes along, dont go for the easy option. Give it time for a bit, see what u really want, because it may not be worth jeopardising your friendship.
be honest with her, tell her you really value the realtionship you have as is, you dont want to chanc elosing taht by making physical intimacy aprt of it
