Im in love but my boyfriend said something that really creeped me out...

It could just be a fantasy of his.

But if it really bothers you tell him! - talk to him about it.

 

get out of there!!!!!!!!

 

It could be as creepy or as normal as anyone else out there, but you need to know his true intentions and what better than to ask him. Tell him that you are a bit concerned and he would listen, if he doesnt, something is off and so should you be...

 

Just sit down and discuss the fantasies YOU BOTH have.

Be fucking honest and open.

He likes playing Daddy, you may like fantasy rape (who knows?)

He may like pretty feet, you may like being covered in peanut butter...

Just play the game, but ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS Be COMPLETELY Honest.

 

Libertine, what you've been smoking?

 

I'm sorry, I wouldn't trust a guy who got off molesting you...because what happens when you have kids...I'd be too worried...and it does sound creepy when its out of the blue and that he didn't tell you he wanted to role play a bit..

I was once kidding around and I started moaning "daddy!" during sex and my bf came in seconds... I tease him about it but its not like he was spanking me or talking to me in babytalk...

I'd leave the guy if he wanted to do that every time we had sex...its just creepy...and being a product of child molestation...thats pretty sick to think thats someones fantasy...

 

I only wonder how you can be sooo "in love" when you've been dating for weeks.

 

Ditto. In all honesty, the thing that bothers me the most is the fact that the whole situation bothered you, but that you "tried not to let him know". How can you expect a relationship to work if you are hiding your feelings?

If he says he "loves" you too, how can he love you if you are hiding your feelings (who you really are)?

COMMUNICATION!!!