Going On A Pussy Eating Strike

Not like that...

Just if he's doing so much for her...why would she not want him to have the same pleasure? Or at least a handjob...
She just sounds so selfish. >_<

 

look at the authors choice of thread title, theres a lot we don't know about this situation, however i would say that the way he words it is objectifing women, she sounds selfish, he sounds interested in sex only
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If you marrying her you will ethir end up geting divorced or being miserable for the rest of your life.I say try new girls.

 

try and see it from his viewpoint...

 

try and see it from her viewpoint...
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I'm not interested in sex only, Me and my fiance sat down and had a talk today because sex just started to be miserable to me and after we was having sex today I literally just quit in the middle of it. She understands now how I feel - She pretty much just lays there like eat me, please me, then you get off however. I feel like I shouldn't have to please her then please myself. Where as we suposed to be pleasing each other. And if thats selfish then I guess I'm selfish.

 

Samhain, you shouldnt come to these forums when your on your period

 

the thing is this comment has a degree of honesty and respect that your thread starter didn't have, you didn't get a lot of negative comments anyway but if you had started the thread with this, you probably wouldn't have got mine
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theres one major reason I find this comment a real classic!
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to repaeat what i said a while ago, it just sounds like you two arent all that sexually compatible to me. it might be time to consider moving on

 

Edastro,

Sounds like you are saying honestly that you are not satisfied and are hurting. Your honesty is good, remain honest and you will find your way. What happens with this relationship in the long-run is written somewhere; and we all have lessons that come about because of connecting with others, this is the nature of life and this is good but it is a truth that life experience brings us toward and that we rarely immediately understand.

Love is not sex. There is a lot about your relationship that we do not know. Sometimes people have feelings, and ways of doing, that are difficult to understand and that can go unvoiced. Sometimes people have been hurt, injured, and we do not always know it.

I have found that when there is a love relationship then there is a sincere caring about how the other person feels that extends to the point of sacrifice; and realize that sacrifice can come in many forms. It seems to me wise not to blame someone for not being aware or caring, or for not being 'right'; but instead be kind, sensitive, honest, and forthright; be honorable and be a friend.

Finding someone on the 'wavelength' of what you seek in a 'partner' requires a moment for that 'wavelength, to register; it takes a little time to know, some time to discover. And remember to love you, and the ones you are with.


Peace,

Dave

 

It sounds like she's selfish and couldn't give a fuck about making you feel good. This isn't about her having a low sex drive. It's about her wanting pleasure without having to return it. When I hear stories like this I wonder if they are indicative of other aspects of the relationship.

 

Your not getting any and you two aren't even married yet? Obviously your not compatible with each other sexually, and you are getting a little pissed about her not willing or wanting to give you oral or even sex nearly as much as youd like.

So, do you thik things will get better once you two are married?

I hear from ALOT of my married friends how the other person, both male and female friends, change once they say "I DO" So, I keep asking them, why should I get married again?

You two really need to work this out efore the big day, or your going to have one hell of a marraige where I don't think your going to be happy, atleast not sexually. Think about it. She didn't even want to give you a handjob?

But, to each their own.

Goodluck

 

I agree, sex is about mutual pleasure. If the pleasure isn't there for both partners (physical or emotional) than the relationship is doomed to failure.

 

Yea that dose sound one sided, i would of done the same thing n not eating her out ne more.. what has she said about this ... she doing her part these days?

 

Honestly, I agree with the people who say that you two are sexually incompatible. Hell, she'd be sexually incompatible with anybody!

Sex should be about two people doing what they can to please each other...

I try and get whoever I'm with to experience as much pleasure as possible, and I want them to feel the same way about me. That's how it should go.