Hey there, Well, I just met this lass a couple of weeks ago and on the first date we ended up having sex, it was an amazing night. She is 21, and I am 18. Now recently she has been texting and ringing me that she wants to meet up, now she has clearly told me that she doesn't want to fall in love with anyone at this moment in her life, neither does she want to get into a relashanship and is very happy being single. Now could she just want to meet up as friends or does she want to have sex again? I don't want to be sounding off course however those are the signs she is giving me. Thanks for any help
Well there is the in-between option to, wanting to meet up with someone as more then just friends but not have sex.
Yes. It's called fuckbuddies, or friends with benefits... for those who can make it work, it's a great option. I can't not fall for someone who I sleep with, so it's not an option for me, but... just talk it out with her, ask her what's up.
Dude, I was in a very similar situation. A girl I worked with who was 23 at the time wanted to "hook up" (as she put it) with me. I was 18 (almost 19) at the time. So, I was like shit, I'll call her up. So, I called her up and we had sex, a one night stand if you will haha. But, she kept texting me days after and I wanted nothing to do with her. She told me she just wanted to have fun. So, my advice to you sir, is run away or keep gettin laid. All she wants is sex, and if you do too... wrap your shit up!
When I was 19, I was in Europe and met a Swedish schoolteacher who was in her late 20s. I was tall and thin and looked 16 and fairly sexually inexperienced. She told me she wanted to teach me how to be a good lover, and we spent a week together, and she taught me everything I ever wanted to know about sex and some things I did not know could be done. It was the best week of my life. I never saw her again. I was her fuckbuddy, although we did not call it that then. She probably wanted to screw one of her students, and I was the closest to one she could find. I wonder where she is now?