Sleeptalking, now my GF is pissed

Hey all,
Apparently last night, while I was sleeping, I said something to the effect of, "it would be easy to sleep with another girl." Now, my girlfriend is hurt and upset. I know it stems from the fact we had an argument early in the evening when she said that if I was unhappy in a relationship, I shouldn't stay in it just to sleep with her. My response was that is would be easy to just have sex with someone else, and I was staying with her because I care about her, not just the sex.

I just wanted to know if you think its fair to hold something against me that I said when I was sleeping. Also, she aknowledges that the comment probably came from the fact we were fighting. I just feel like I'm getting nailed for doing nothing wrong.

Whats your opinion?

Peace

 

well it's a bit tough one actually. i understand your point of view but as a girl i would start thinking that maybe in your sleep your 'true feelings' took over or something like that.. so :S dunno

 

Fuck that, I have dreams about me brutally killing people, and I'm a pacifist...

Dreams are NOT reality. Tell your GF that she needs to understand that fact.

 

Aye, girl paranoia is a strange thing. It may not be fair, but welcome to girlworld.

 

How do you know she's not just making it up to get back at you? Do you even remember what you were dreaming about?

 

She totally can't hold that against you. Seriously.
My husband says some of THE most ridiculous things in his sleep. And he yells/screams sometimes, and he's hit me a few times (busted my bottom lip once when we first got together, elbowed me in the head twice in one night, etc). One night, he just randomly yelled (literally YELLED...loud) "Go ahead, I don't fucking care!!" Haha, I have no idea what he meant, but I thought it was pretty cool.

People say/do silly things in their sleep. Shit happens. Last night he had a dream that we broke up and I was refusing to talk to him. Doesn't mean it's gonna happen or anything, and he certainly doesn't think that I secretly hate him now. Because he knows better. Simple, really.