to lie or to tell the truth?

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  1. veroness

    veroness There's only one :)

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    would lie to a friend to make them not cry, or tell the truth? one of my friends that sits at our lunch table has a twin sister that is in american day (its like a helping place for people with issues concerning everything from cutting, depression, family issues) and her sister is in there because of family issues (divorce) and relationship issues. she knew i went there whan i was 14 and she asked me if it helped me, i paused and didnt know how to anwser but i ended up saying no. then she startted to cry but i tried to explian that maybe it works for different kinds of people. i know that when i was in there it made things worse. i think the best thing to have is a friend to help ya thropugh things and a mentor or someone that could handle what ever your going through. and after i said that, she felt better. but i still hate the fact that she cried. it does sow that she cares about her sister. what would you do in this situation?
     
  2. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I would tell the truth, if you had lied you would have had to tell more lies and make up a story as she would have asked more questions
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  3. wiuf

    wiuf Member

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    honesty is the best policy. but most everyone lies, sometimes.
     
  4. Smelly Socks

    Smelly Socks is probably lurking

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    Truth, my child, always with the truth.

    I'm Jesus, I know these things.

    You don't believe me? Well, then, to hell with you. :D
     
  5. neponiatka

    neponiatka Senior Member

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  6. hippydippysayspeace

    hippydippysayspeace Member

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    tell the truth because in the long run she might even thank you...dothe right thing even if it might hurt her now because i would want the truth no matter what and im sure she would want the same from her friends
     
  7. FunkyPhreshMama

    FunkyPhreshMama Visitor

    mos def. the truth..


    i have found lies are only good if a friend asks you if her pants make her look fat...........
     
  8. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    truth =D
     

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