my girlfriend and i have been together for over two years now with one four month break up in the middle. the break up was because of myspace. some of you may know already that myspace can be a dealbreaker if you let it. there were some night where i came home drunk and got on there and send messsages to girls(in other towns far away) that i have admited were inapropriate. little did i know that she had my password and the whole thing blew up and we broke up over it. so now we are back together again and i dont do anything like that now but we both have pages. she has (since we got back together) accepted other guys but she wont accept me. my page is open to the public to see and all my friends are people i know. she told me strait up tonight she wont accept me because of what happened before. i said this is a way for us to move past this and a way for me to show her i should be trusted. im pissed cause she isnt even willing to give me a chance with this. we've both made mistakes with trust and im trying to make amends for it. should i just drop this or what? help please!!!
myspace? such petty crap, so self centered. why not our space or something more social? I dislike the concept of that place. And Drunk or not there is no excuse to send anything to other girls. I get drunk but I can still control myself fine. Its not like beer turns you into a different person, still the same person. At 33 you should know that.
only thing i sent out was compliments on pictures. none of these girls lived anywhere close to me and i wasnt trying to hook up with any of them. i know it was wrong and i admitted it. what more can i do???
Now let me get this right, you are living with a beautiful lady and you are doing the Myspace thing ? You two have deeper problems than Myspace ! Get off the pc and ENJOY the journey man and if you do get on the pc, do it togeteher, what a turn on that would be and then you wuldn't be wondering about the other one was doing. Like I said, Myspace ain't the problem here.- Southernhermit and the little hippy dog
here is a good advidce: get off the internet and spend more time togather! let go the myspace thing, it's stypid anyway
youre seriously 33 years old and letting mysapce break you two apart? AND u want to date someone who hacked into your accoutn (u said u didnt know wshe hadh your password) but seriously, youre 33 and letting the freaking idiotnet keep u two from reconnecting? jesus
Khoutown, You are answering your own questions. It also sounds like some of the advice may have some good to it? I will venture to ask, why is she not forgiving of you. It sounds like there are deeper issues here and this is very likely more complex than anyone without intimate knowledge of the situation would understand; this thread could help you to think, to feel, and help you to answer your own questions which is how your understanding is really going to come about anyways even if someone is "on the mark". David
i know i know. this is the first time ive ever asked for advise from strangers across the globe. i feel like when you're in a long distance relationship like we are trust is vital. but at the same time one has to recognize that certain things can be blown out of control. ive taken the high road with her on this one. its just scary when you let your heart go to someone. ya know?
