The State of the American Black Male

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Wow! Hmmm I don't think it is the area that you are in. I see the same type of brothers here. Now I'm not looking for for them really. Just an observation. All I can say is that if you live in the inner cities, you will find males of all colors and races as you describe before. Many black women say that there are a few good black men and all the good ones are being taken by other races. But these same women are the ones that are close-minded and do not except men because they have different hobbies. I, for one, have dated more white women then black women. Why? Because as soon as I say I skateboard, listen to more than just rap, or anything most black males don't do, they are immediately disgusted. Its probably the same for other guys too. All I can say is maybe you just aren't looking enough. Maybe the good ones don't approach you because they might think you will be disgusted by things they do that aren't readily accepted by the black culture. The only things I qualify on your list are for being in jail, but that was for one night and for false charges. And living with my parents, but I'm still in school full time. Oh yea..I love my mama! But I'm too young 4 ya.

 

Wowww....
someones got some really high expectations

it really freaks me out when women post their long list of requirements for men on the forums, but eh...
who cares if a man isnt "stable" for a relationship or whatever... we arent all slaves to the marriage/dating "soul mate" bullshit...

 

Copied from the list above.

11. A man who ask a woman out on a first date, and expect her to pay for everything;
13. Professionals who offer women money all the time, thinking that that is the way to a woman's heart, or assuming that that's a sure way to get some coochie.


If you ask her out and don't pay, she will be pissed off. And if you ask her out and pay for everything, she will be pissed off! A man can't win.

I'm a really nice guy. The women who I was attracted to were the girls who radiated an aura of calm self-confidence and personal peace.

Really, truly, it is the inner person we connect to, even early on in a relationship. And if the inner person is bitter and twisted, then it is likely that the nice men will pick up on those negative vibes.

Take a deep breath and get some perspective. Change your social scene to a place where men who are not ex-convicts or partner abusers hang out. Find some nice men and rebuild your faith and trust in the male of the species.

And don't limit yourself to skin colour. I'm white and my wife is African from Africa and very brown. And I love her truly madly and deeply.

Mark

 

ALPARISH, You Sound Like A Fucking Horrible Bitch That Could That Never Be Satisfied With Any Man!

 

this reminds me of an article i read in the london evening standard. "why i prefer to date white women" google.co.uk it, it sounds very similar to what your writing there.

 

Looking for a black man? Someone who has his shit together and isn't full of shit? You're lucky you live in Atlanta because many of the top black colleges and universities are right in your back yard.

http://www.morehouse.edu/
http://www.spelman.edu/
http://www.cau.edu/
http://www.emory.edu/

If you can't find a decent man in Atlanta, you can always head up to Nashville

http://www.fisk.edu

Being a college student or a college graduate doesn't guarantee that someone is worth a damn, but you have to admit the odds are a lot better.

You don't have to be a student at one of these schools to find a man who is. Then of course there is always the faculty. There are no barbed wire fences around the campuses, no one is going to throw you out for being there.

Don't let the bozo's here get you down. It's good that you're a strong woman who knows what she wants and isn't willing to settle for some jackass just because he's got the skin color you prefer.

Kelticman

 

same type of people here, only some are white too. i like the black guys who were like jazz musicians and blues singers..

 

I could be wrong but....


Maybe if you spent your time enjoying life and making yourself a better person instead complaining ....The "right kinda man" would be drawn to you

cause from what I read the "right kinda man" is avoiding your superficial ass like the plague