My man won't take it !!!!!!

My bf wanted to do anal, My mother insisted that it is humiliating for me, someone in this forum advised me to tell him that I'll only take it in the ass if he does first and see what he says about it.​

but he got mad at me and said that he is straight and won't accept something like that but for girls it is not the same as girls take it any way, vagina or ass the generally the dame action ...​

what do u think ladies and gents...
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I think your boyfriend is an ignorant ****.

 

i think it syour decision whether its humiliating or not. but if neither of you are comfortable with anal why bother thinking about it?

 

Yeah, what she said.

 

Being straight has nothing to do with it. Maturity would help.

 

I agree with all the other posters. If he won't take it (and it's not a fetish of yours that you desperately want), then he doesn't get it.

Saying that women must always be the one being fucked is ignorant. It won't "make him gay", it won't demasculinize him. It'll make him more aware of what it's like for you, and hey! Maybe he could learn to be better at it.

But if he's being a close-minded jerk, then he doesn't get the pleasure. He's not worth it.

 

Who gives a fuck about what your mum says. Who gives a fuck about feminists saying they should be able to fuck guys in the butt whenever they want.

If you wanna buttfuck, and he wants to buttfuck, then go do some buttfucking. You don't need to play any stupid little mind games with him, or your mum, or any female chauvenist hippie momma on this forum.

 

And therein lies the problem. Last we checked, she didn't seem to want to be buttfucked. He's trying to talk her into it.

 

AutumnsMoonChild, I like a lot of people on these forums but you are by FAR my favorite for many, many reasons

 

Is the OP really 30? Why would a thirty year old female ask such a question?

 

I think if you have to ask people on the internet whether or not you should take it in the ass, you probably shouldn't be doing it. It's your own decision. I like it. I have plenty of friends, male and female, who like it... and plenty who don't. All you can do is try if you're willing, and if not, he'll get over it.

 

You are too, baby! I miss you!

 

If he wants to try anal with you, and you are open to the idea, then try it.
If you aren't keen on the idea, say no.
It doesn't have to become a massive civil rights equality thing about how he should immediately ram a carrot up his rear end too.

 

I would make him experience it first.
If you don't wanna do it, then don't.
I think he will understand since he won't take it himself.

 

straight guys dont like to be penetrated

 

So, most girls don't want to get anally penetrated.

 

I've always been interested in anal sex. Whenever I would try to encourage my gf to let me put it in her butt, she would reply "Let me do it to you first, then you can put it in my ass". To which I would reply "Fuck that, that's gay."

After growing up alittle bit, and being more willing to experiment, I asked my gf again "Can I put it in your butt?" To which she replied, let me do you first, then you can put it in my ass".... to which I replied "You know what? That sounds fair enough... take it.. its yours"
... to which she replied "..........."

I can't win...

 

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I think I don't get why your mother is involved....

 

I think its kind of creepy that you told your mother about this.

 

Im a guy, and the way he worded things makes us all look bad, hes been demotted to buster brown status in the eyes of hipforum.

He shouldnt expect you to just be open to having things stuck up ur hole if he isnt even willing to consider it happing to him .
If he wants it bad enough he'll take a finger or two.

but then again i do understand where hes comming from , there is a bit of a stigma with men taken things in there bums ( there gay ) but he needs to get over his self imposed limatations... the world cant judge him for taken 1 in the ass if u and him are the only wittness... Tell him to ease back and spread those cheeks for moma!