So my fairly new boyfriend has been ignoring me for the past few days. Like it's blatant. I called him and left a message the other night and he didnt respond. I didnt think it was a big deal. Then last night I called him and he didnt answer and I didnt leave a message. I im-ed him and he didnt respond, well my best friend im's him and he responded to her. She asked if he was mad at me and he said no. I called him again and left a message. saying something among the lines of "i havent talked to you in awhile I wanted to see whats up, it kinda feels like your ignoring me. i miss you, call me back". The last time we hung out everything was fine and there isnt any reason I can think of for him to be ignoring me. Ugh I dont know...Any ideas as to what could be going on?
He doesn't know what he wants, everytime a guy ackts stypid or unundrestendable, i explain that to myself with "he doesn't know what he wants", and know what? Everytime i say that it trun offs that is true! Be cool, if you call him again, and he don't answers, just leave him a message that there is no reason for him to be ignoring you, and that you wont call him forever, if he has a problem he can tell you. And than don't call him, and waight for him to call
I've definitly been there before and as much as it sucks, this is kind of a HUGE red flag. The bottom line is that if a guy wants to talk to you, spend time with you, and be around you, then he will. If he is ignoring you over even the internet, that is a sign that he really just doesn't want to talk. He probably also loves the fact that you are holding on and giving him attention. You should definitly stop contacting him and consider it, as far as you know, over. If he never talks to you again, then obviously it wasn't working out. However, if he decides that he misses the attention from you, and comes back, then tell him that you thought what he did was immature and give him another shot. But please don't let yourself become one of those girls that guys laugh at because they just never get it. Good luck!
Would you ignore a guy that you liked, but talk to his friend online? No, you probably wouldn't, but if you did then you see that there is no future and want the relationship to fade quietly away. No messy break-up or tearful phone calls.....and if he talks to your friend he knows you will hear about it and realize he is ignoring you, and not busy or out of town on an emergency. Move on and find a man that wants to return your calls
he's just a fool.... it's better not to call him anymore if he wants to talk to you he'll do it himself but i understand you girl guys are just strange smtimes.... don't think it's because of you...the problem is in him.
