Alright..i dont know what the problem is but we used to fuck more then 2 times everyday when we met back in the summer. But now that she is pregnant, the sex has slowed down alot. At first i thought it was because of morning sickness but now that is over and she is doing fine. I know its normal but are there any ways to make her want to have sex more? I feel like I did back when I didn't have a GF jacking off like 3 times a day! I just got a job today so i was wondering maybe if me not having a job before dissapointed her thus not as much sex, but could that be a possibility? Is this something that is gonna be normal throughout her pregnancy or is there something to help the problem?
yes, it is normal. It isn't a health problem on her end. Some women are hornier when pregnant, some find their sex drives dwindle to almost nothing. Deal with it, don't bitch about it or pressure her... she has enough to deal with right now without you bitching that you aren't getting laid enough.
pregnancy doesnt make you damaged like icedteapriestess said, sometimes the hormones invovled in pregnancy turn you into a raving sex loon, other times it makes you completelky uninterested in sex. depends onthe woman. dont forget about the power of romance
Sometimes during pregnancy certain types of sex are difficult and can make her uncomfortable. Try doggy style, or woman on top if that is OK with her.
ive also heard good things about her sitting ie in a chair and the man standing on kneeling... so either a very low or very hihg (like a barstool) type chair probably
Underplay, You sound like a winner. You're 18 with a pregnant GF, and you're complaining that she doesn't want to have sex with you as much as in the past. There are many reasons that her libido could be low, and it is not something that you have the right to cry about right now. If you think the sex is scarce now, wait until you have the kid. Also, if you're looking to raise a kid and you were unemployed until very recently, you've got bigger problems. IMHO, you are not ready too be a father, and I hope that you can pull things together, stop being selfish, and do the best for your GF and child. Just my 2 cents
There are some people i just dont understand, and you are one of them. How on Earth can you post about that? Sex is all you care about when your gf is carrying your kid? If i was in your position and i loved the girl, sex wouldn't be on my mind, i'd rather think about and plan my future with her and the baby. Plenty more to think about than ways to get her to have sex. Maybe it's just me though...
lol, i'd be so mad someone knocked me up i'd not want to touch em either! really though, cut her some slack, man - work on yourself and your situation and be supportive of her whether you're getting any or not - you're going to be on this ride for the rest of your lives, and a few months of not getting your dick wet should matter not either way
haha i knew people would give me shit. If i wanted to ask for advice about how im doing in life, i would have posted that, but I didin't did I? Thank you all for the concern about how my life is going. I am very happy to be a father and the relationship with my GF(future wife) is going great, and i will be working 2 jobs soon and making sure that my GF stays in school and completes college. And I do know that I will stick by my son no matter what happens unlike my dad did for my entire family. So thank you for the concern, AND FUCK OFF! This subject is about me not getting enough pussy from my GF not about how bad of a person i am for wanting natural sex and having raging hormones. EazyE, when you start having sex and you learn a little and are in my position im sure you will understand, untill then, go roam the Marijuana and enjoy life. Here are some posters that can read and understand what the topic is about.(i dont expect the females to give good advice cause im a sexist bastard and they are all bitches when it comes to this sort of topic.) Allonym Cutted psychedelic goddess
I think you just solved the mystery. It's ok to want sex (I'm not even sure what the hell you mean by natural sex) and to have raging hormones, you're 18. But your girlfriend has plenty on her mind and sex probably isn't at the top of the list. Sorry, but if you think your hormones are raging, imagine what hers are doing.
im female. sorry for bursting your bubble on good advice or assuming youre sexist. except, now i do kind of htink your an ass considering yoru reaction towards a few female posters taking their issues out on you and spreading that nasty attitude to all women. alos, i rather imagine "psychedelic goddess" is also a woman. so. back tot he topic at hand, id also sugget talking to her about it, asking if tehres anything you can do to help her out with everything and anything, including her libido
