first step...Should I...???

This guy just drives me crazy
he's too beautiful... he seems perfect smtimes...
i don't even know him
he studies at the same university and i often see him but i'm not sure if he likes me and he's not likely to get acquianted with me
i'm scared to do this myself
it seems he'll only laugh at me
but man... i do want to get to know him
is it ok if i do the first step
and what would be a nice phrase to start this conversation?

 

If you've ever talked to him before, maybe asking him something like borrrowing a pen, then talk for a bit and maybe ask him if he wants to study with you sometime?

 

you should just go for it...

 

:hang:

 

Yes
Hi

 

Tell him you like his eyes, his hair, or his clothes. (What you really like is what is inside them.) He will get the message, although at 19 some guys are clueless.

 

ehhhh
i think i'm cowardly coz i'm afraid he'll look at me like "girl, what do ya want?"
we often see each other and he looks straight into my eyes....but nothing more...
i know some guys don't like when a girl is the first to start conversation...
damn you beautiful guys with long hair...

 

um, you're gorgeous so i'm sure he won't have a problem with it
i'd say go for it
"hi" is probably the best start

 

Thanks you gorgeous too
and he himself is so gorgeous that takes my breath away and confuses me greatly....(though i'm not usually shy)
he's alw with his goddam friends so that i can't come up...
still i hope i'll be brave enough to come up to him some day with some silly phrase like i usu do

 

Then e-mail him or text message him if you can.

 

Start with "Privet", and then go on from there.

 

ahhh...
why can't he just come up to me himself...

stupid handsome guy

 

If you see him alone just say "hi" when your walking past, he might stop and talk to you.

 

Do you guys use Facebook over in Russia? You could casually add him and send him a simple message to get the ball rolling if you are not daring enough to actually go up and talk to him.

 

Ask him if he wants to fuck?

 

Ohhh
girl, just go for it, don't make it so compilcated when is soooooo simple

 

make your move... don´t think it too much... cuz it won´t sound natural.... just go over there and do it!

 

A woman who takes initiative!!! We need more of you in the world.

 

Just approach him and maybe ask him if he wants to go for a drink or something. The worst thing he could say is "No", but at least it won't be as frustrating as not knowing.

 

thank you all
that doesnt matter now coz yesterday i was really mad and attacked him while he was going home
i dont know what pushed me to this but i started this absolutely crazy conversation asking strange questions...oh man
i knew it would be like that coz i can never do things standardly...
i acted on impulse but he seemed nice and polite
still i think he is indifferent to me and it depresses me
no it kills me in fact