Haha, alright. I know this kid who I happen to like a lot. For over a year we've passed eachother in the hallways and did that mutual-eyes-thing and it was pretty obvious we both noticed eachother. So blah, time goes on and I make my friend introduce me to him. Now, we can't get past "hi" but I know for a fact we've got a lot in common, he knows this too (We're both in all the same clubs at school, for example). He's an incredibly quiet kid and he's hard to pull out of his little group of friends to talk to. I, on the other hand, am also way too shy for my own good. How the hell do I move this forward? Help, as usual, is greatly appreciated.
If you are involved in the same type of clubs you could walk over to him and say something like "what did you think of that fundraising idea?" It helps if you are shy to talk about something basic and it will open the doors to something more personal. I wish you luck....and if all else fails you could ask him a homework question if you know he is good at a subject....the "I really don't understand this algebra equation, can you help me out?"
Yeah, there's that hippie spirit. These threads are dime a dozen, give me a break. I'm supposed to care about a childish crush? I wish I could direct their parents to these threads
ok. . going back to illstyleleee. . it's an opportunity for you that you are both in the same clubs at school. Just imagine how big this opportunity is. So you better not let this go, take full advantage of this. Since you have so much in common, you can ask him for these things as a conversation starter. ___________ conversation skills Free Report reveals secrets to making great conversation. Get it here: http://www-conversation.com/ communication skills Free Report reveals communication skills secrets that work like magic. Get it here: http://www-communicationskills.com/
Haha, yea I guess the options are pretty obvious but I'm socially retarded. And yes, crud3w4re, that's possible too. Maaaan, I dig encouragement.
At your age, all some guys want to do is jump someones bones. They know they have to talk and socialize to get to that point, but talking and socializing seem pointless. So since they can't get to where they want to go without taking the necessary steps to get there, they just don't do anything. Either give him some time to come around or cut your loses and take an interest in someone else.
