im a 15 year old guy and girls in my area seem realy uptight about sex. Im all for free love, its natural im wondering how old do girls have to be to be comfortabe about sex?
its all up to each individual girl, but it sounds like your just after pussy... so maybe they can sense that?
that true, but i suggest maybe finding one girl for now and like being around here instead of having sex with her, most girls know boys and be just as big sluts.
I personally think that 15 and 16 is too young. There are so many immature 16 year olds out there. How can they be responsible enough to have sex?
when i was in school we started learning about protection and sex when i was in gr 4 so thats.... 11 or 12, but maybe its not the same everywhere.. I know i wasnt comfortable, considering how much i actually wanted to i never would have and didnt until i was 18
there's a huge difference between being uptight and simply not being ready. Not to mention most women need an emotional connection with someone they're about ot fuck, especially if it's the first time ever for them. Maybe not being pushy about it would help you out...
yea really some are resdy earlier then others theres nothing uptight about it, hell i know some very kinky virgins, but sure dont mean they'll jump in bed withwhoever waves a dick at em...
Are you implying that it's only okay to have sex if you want/are ready for children? That's nuts. No pun intended.
That would be ideal; however, not everyone waits to have sex when they're ready to have children. I mean, isn't that the point of birth control, to make it safe to have sex when you're not yet ready to have kids?
its not 100% effective and lots of girls know that these days. there are better methods than some, but it involves fucking around with the natural ways your body is ment to work. absense is the best form of birth control.
U mean 'abstinence' & yeah, it's is the best form of birth control, but to play it safe there are so many options available in this day & age. I prefer the Depo-Provera shot because "no more periods"!!!! arty:
You're right of course, and anyone who intends to have sexual intercourse with their partner using any form of birth control (other than abstinence) will still be taking a risk albeit a smaller one. Nevertheless, it's still a lot safer than doing it without taking precautions, which is the whole point of birth control. It's about making pregnancy if not 100% impossible then at least highly unlikely so that people who are not ready to have children can still have sex if they choose to without worrying about it. I'm not saying that this makes it ok for 15-year-olds to have sex - since they still will be taking a risk, but should they decide to do so, than at least they can take the necessary precautions. Sure, the ideal time is when they're ready to deal with pregnancy, but let's face it: not everyone who has sex is ready to be a parent. Even at my age, I'm not ready - and I have a fairly active sex life.
Take note that Rue said "should one occur". Rue was reminding the 15 year old of one of the major consequences of sex.
I wish I could date girls under 18, but I'm not allowed I think once you have your first period, you're ready to date. That's one passage in my book of ever changing opinions on everything.
