Anyone else in the lonely single teenagers club?

Yeah, I am. Ive been out for a couple years now and all i got out of it was a couple random fucks from curious guys that went right back to their "Normal" Lives afterwards. So, i meet this kid, the only other gay kid I know up here, And he found a boyfriend. This kid hasnt even come out completely yet, but hes getting boyfriends alredy? And ive been out for 2 fucking years and I am still looking. I just feel left out in the dust. I dont think i look unattractive, but i dont know. I just really hope it doesnt stay this way forever.... Thanks for letting me whine a little

 

Inscribe my name on the list. I could litter these forums with my mutterings about it, but I don't because I can;'t stand even being here or talking about it too much.

fuck it. i hate myself and my life.

 

i know it doesn't seem like it, but it's worth the wait.

i promise.

 

you can choose to let life's unfair peculiarities get to you.

or you can choose not to. it's hard and harsh, but it's simply the truth. there's nothing you can do to change it, learn to love it.

 

Yeah it's pretty much like a random potluck if you look at it that way. Then again I used to let people come to me, now I'd rather go looking for people, though I'm still pretty shy in that respect. I get really depressed and lonely really fast when i don't have a relationship with someone who I can be extremely close with. Luckily I managed to make a really good friend for myself, so I'm not that bad now.

But yeah, searching or waiting for that someone can suck, so my advice would be that if you aren't happy with you're current status, try meeting people online. I used myspace. Believe it or not, it was a great way to meet people. Maybe I was too trusting that they wouldn't be a balding pedophile or something. Phone calls help. Meeting someone you've been talking with online for the first time is amazing. It was such an awesome night. That was how I met my second boyfriend and we're still best friends to this day.

 

Add me to the list. It is very hard to find other gay guys our age (or older guys, depending on your preference) and it almost seems unfair because (I think) the majority of gay teenagers feel like being gay is "unfair" as finding a parter is so much harder than it is for straight people. But in the long run, it might actually be better than having had multiple girlfriends/boyfriends over the years as a teenager...but still =[ very annoying.

***UPDATE***

I am currently chatting to someone else very nice and gay over email quite a lot lately so I guess this thread only applies to me partially now. I have someone to talk to about things at least all though we are not "together" or whatever.

 

yeah its totally not easy being a gay teenager... I am kinda in the same boat as the rest of you.. I did meet another gay guy.. and we are really close.. we definatly have a soul connection.. but we are more like brothers.. its great we do things together like an actual dating couple would.. but we do it as friends.. so it kinda helps.. so maybe even if you had that it could help you out a little more =)

 

being a straight teen can be just as hard at times

 

I dunno I really wonder sometimes.. I still think being gay is harder imo

 

Count me in.

 

I think being gay would be harder in most cases, but being a teen in general is pretty hard
I find being a bi-curious teen to be quite shitty at times =P (especially when I used to think that I might be bi or gay :tongue

 

yea buddy....try being gay here in Texas......it's just touching.

 

You sure this guy wasnt just going with the 'trend'? Some Highschool kids seem to think that being gay or being Bi is cool and they are doing it for attention. maybe either him or his boyfriend are that way, just doing it because its 'cool.'

And looking at what my friends have to go through for being gay, i think being straight is easier. Being gay is like being another color, there are always going to be people who dislike you for reasons you cant control. if your straight, youll still have people not like you but they wont discriminate against you as much.

 

Definitely in that club, and with a dose of unrequited love.

 

I'm a veteran member.

 

I'm in

 

being a gay teenagers sucks really hard.... in the bad way. especially in Tennessee. Guess im still a teenager, legaly an adult my age still has "teen" in it., put me down on this list.