I fall in love with people, male or female it does not matter. I want to be there for everyone, and lift them up when they fall. While I am truly gay, as in i could never even be aroused by a women no matter how hard I try. I still feel as if I love some women to the point where I wouldn't mind marrying them, but I would never do much more than kiss them.
Stick with friendships with women. If you enter a romantic relationship with a woman, you are setting yourself and the woman up for disaster. Be true to yourself. My closest friend is a woman. I think she is wonderful and I probably love her more than anyone else. However, as much as we love one another, I could never delude myself into entering into a marital relationship with her. Do not confuse love and physical attraction. The women that you love, deserve an honest relationship with a man.
Well said, bkcmar. Yup, it happens to me all the time. To make it worse, I would have no problem having sex with a woman, too. I did it for 10 years and I loved it. But, I still like being with men much more. And I would never do anything to hurt anyone, simply because I am promising something, I know, I will not likely fulfill. So, just make friends and stay away from hurting other guys and gals. KD
It happens to me too, almost exactly like that. I was just thinking about a girlfriend from last year (before I was honest with myself about being gay), and I realized that I could fall in love with her again, but I wouldn't be interested in a physical relationship. I'm just going to try to ignore it.
i have two very close girl friends. probably closer to me than all of my guys friends. i love them, but i could never pursue a sexual relationship with them. ..maybe if i was really drunk
same here. a girl friend I've know for 32 years we're close but I'm not interested in her in the physical way, just as a good friend.
The same happens to me, though since I'm bi, I'm appealed to both sexes both mentally and physically (though usually, I find women more attractive though I find men to be so much more mentally supportive and more physically pleasing).
I have very close female friends, but the thought of wanting to do more than kiss them never comes into play. Marrying? Why on earth. BTW I find I usually have a different set of standards for women. I will tend to cut women a lot more slack when it comes to what they say and how they say it (probably because the possibility of having anything romantic isn't on the table). Consequently, if I have told a woman to get out of my life forever, chances are she had crossed the line big time... usually with issues of trust.
Sometimes being just friends is more fun, anyway. There's no chance to do something that makes your relationship akward.
