ok so heres the pickle im in. my friends carla since last week wanted to come over to my house, get mad crazy wasted and smoke. im down with smoking but im pretty sick and tried smoking and it hurts everytime i do. and im not into drinking. i mean when its there, ill drink it but its not like i go out and look for parties or get drunk a lot. so anyway she still wants me to get alcohol and weed and drink with her and smoke and the truth is i dont really want to right now. maybe next weekend will be better. but shes been talking about this all week and she's had some friends trest her like shit recently and now i dont know what to do. i want to make her happy but i dont want to smoke and drink while im sick. for me to get my booze i'd have to go to work (where i dont have to come in today) ask someone who's working to go to the liquor store across the street and buy some then ask my dude to get some weed from him. it gonna be a long process and one i am not to thrilled about. what should i do? i dont want to made her sad!
don't do things just because other people want you to only do the things that you want to do going by that would you rather make her happy and just give in? or would you rather try and comprimise and reschedule? or would you rather not do it at all? which do YOU want most??
I'd probably just wait and not worry too much about it. I don't like to drink much anymore... maybe a couple beers now and then if it's Summer. I've been contemplating teetotalership.
you could fake drink, only drink a little but act real drunk i hate being made to drink, it makes me feel sick then just chill back and smoke a couple slim joints she'll be wasted, and youll just be a little stoned
Be straight with her. If shes really a friend, she won't really care.Say something likw "Sorry, Im not really in the mood to get fucked up, Ive been sick. Maybe next weekend. Why don't we just hang out?" or ask her if she can get her own stuff seeing as the process seems a bit out of your way.
