My bf keeps asking me to have anal, this is not the first one to ask me, my previous bf also wanted that.. can any body tell me why do guys like anal that much? and ladies does it worth the pain?
I think the reason why I like anal sex the best is because first off, its not a normal thing to do. Most people just have vaginal sex. So, when your tired of the same old thing over and over again, (like I was) it was time for a change. You can also throw in the kinky factor. Once you get anal going, do am ATM, thats even better and more kinkier. Another issue you can really look at is that you can't get pregnant. That was a HUGE plus for me since I do not want kids and HATE condoms. So, fucking in the ass works perfectly. I have been with my gf/fiance for 10 years. It took me a few years to get up the courage to ask her to let me fuck her in the ass. After that, it took about 2 more years for her to actually start enjoying it. Now, anal sex is all we do. She still says that she like getting fucked in the pussy better than the ass but, she sure does not comppalin abit when I'm fucking her ass. If you really go slow, and I mean, take it slow over the course of weeks or months anal sex will not hurt. You have to be able to relax completely. Use a good silicone based lube like Pjur Eros bodyglide. Is is the best lube ever made. If you do these things and don't rush in it all at one time you will see that it is all worth it. Plus you could always use your ass as a way of getting things you want from your BF in return. Hope this helps. Have a great night!
I have heard a psychiatrist or two suggest that we boys all have a smidgen of admiration for the male ass - we pat it in sports, show it in public showers, and secretly admire it as part of the anatomy we work on. Homophobia being what it is, an acceptable transferrance seems to be a woman's rear. I, of course, have heatedly disageed with these learned doctors! In our defence I have mentioned the contours blending so perfectly as to fit like a jigsaw puzzle, the above suggestion as to pregnancy, and of course the tight fit; until the lady's surgery for anal repair in her fifth decade.
