I have some friends that are making me wonder... I've always done favours for people. Hell, I go out of my way to do a friend a favour, and it seems as if no one is willing to do the same for me, I'm home with the flu and sick as hell, I just want to smoke a bit and watch tv... and get better... but my friend wont drive me to my dealer's house it's literally a 3 minute chunk out of her day and it would save me a shitload of trouble, she even passes by here on her way back to school but she wont do me this favour, and it's not like this is the first time, It seems that no one will do me any favours, I cant walk because it's freezing cold out and a 15 minute walk with these winds, I'd probably get my death of cold. And i dont ask for much, it's always literally a 2 minute thing for them that would save me a world of trouble, and they always deny... it's beginning to make me think i shouldn't do them any favours... but I like helping others out, this is just troubling me is all
Yeah, I'm the same way, man. Most people don't seem to value that, but I don't really care. I've always been like that.
Don't let this stop you from being a kind, generous, giving friend. The world needs more people like you. :flowers:
I don't usually expect a lot from people, so when I find someone worthwhile I tend to hold on to them. I think a lot of times people don't know what it is to truly be a friend. Somtimes they just need to be educated. I had this friend who got into a car accident like an hour from my house, adn instead of calling me she took a taxi and rented a car. I told her that she should have just called me, and i would have been right there.
Do not do good things for the sake of having good things done back to ya, Do good things for the sake of being humane. You cannot expect people to appreciate what you do for them, most of them are too entwined within their own egocentricity for that... but that does not make then ungrateful... no sir.
Most people won't do anything for anyone aside from themselves...as rubin said. i much prefer having a few very close friends rather than many whom are not as close. i'm so glad i'm through with high school
Haha, I like doing things for people and never expect anything. The main thing is never expect anything from anyone, but expect anything at anytime.
I wouldn't drive a friend to pick up weed either. Dunno - drugs are the kind of thing you're supposed to be self-reliant about.