"friends"

Discussion in 'The Whiners' started by darksideofthemoon, Feb 13, 2007.

  1. darksideofthemoon

    darksideofthemoon Senior Member

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    I have some friends that are making me wonder...



    I've always done favours for people. Hell, I go out of my way to do a friend a favour, and it seems as if no one is willing to do the same for me,


    I'm home with the flu and sick as hell, I just want to smoke a bit and watch tv... and get better...

    but my friend wont drive me to my dealer's house
    it's literally a 3 minute chunk out of her day and it would save me a shitload of trouble, she even passes by here on her way back to school but she wont do me this favour, and it's not like this is the first time, It seems that no one will do me any favours,

    I cant walk because it's freezing cold out and a 15 minute walk with these winds, I'd probably get my death of cold.

    And i dont ask for much, it's always literally a 2 minute thing for them that would save me a world of trouble, and they always deny... it's beginning to make me think i shouldn't do them any favours... but I like helping others out, this is just troubling me is all
     
  2. dropsomenyc

    dropsomenyc Member

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    you have to get a dealer that delivers. Does she smoke?
     
  3. Orsino2

    Orsino2 Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Yeah, I'm the same way, man. Most people don't seem to value that, but I don't really care. I've always been like that.
     
  4. Flowers In My Hair

    Flowers In My Hair Spontaneous Joy

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    Don't let this stop you from being a kind, generous, giving friend. The world needs more people like you. :flowers:
     
  5. dropsomenyc

    dropsomenyc Member

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    I don't usually expect a lot from people, so when I find someone worthwhile I tend to hold on to them. I think a lot of times people don't know what it is to truly be a friend. Somtimes they just need to be educated. I had this friend who got into a car accident like an hour from my house, adn instead of calling me she took a taxi and rented a car. I told her that she should have just called me, and i would have been right there.
     
  6. darksideofthemoon

    darksideofthemoon Senior Member

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    yeah
     
  7. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

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    Do not do good things for the sake of having good things done back to ya,
    Do good things for the sake of being humane.

    You cannot expect people to appreciate what you do for them, most of them are too entwined within their own egocentricity for that... but that does not make then ungrateful... no sir.
     
  8. wave owls not flags

    wave owls not flags is not interested

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    Most people won't do anything for anyone aside from themselves...as rubin said. i much prefer having a few very close friends rather than many whom are not as close. i'm so glad i'm through with high school :p
     
  9. Orsino2

    Orsino2 Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Haha, I like doing things for people and never expect anything.

    The main thing is never expect anything from anyone, but expect anything at anytime.
     
  10. spooner

    spooner is done.

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    I wouldn't drive a friend to pick up weed either. Dunno - drugs are the kind of thing you're supposed to be self-reliant about.
     
  11. Orsino2

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    I'd drive my mother or neighbor to pick up her meds at the pharmacy...
     

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