Never Had Sex

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by DreamweaverXXX, Feb 10, 2007.

  1. DreamweaverXXX

    DreamweaverXXX Member

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    This is really sad,
    i am 18 and am still a virgin....
    how do u guys lose ur virginity so early????
     
  2. deadmilkman

    deadmilkman ~ ClouD ~

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    Hey man ... don't worry about. It might be a good thing.
     
  3. PSYCHEDELICA MAN

    PSYCHEDELICA MAN The psychman

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    welcome and don't worry bro
     
  4. crud3w4re

    crud3w4re I like Grunge.

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    I'm very shy, so I'll tell you how I did it. Well, I can't pursue girls offline [anxiety], so what I did was go to a localized chatroom, and then I met my first real offline gf when I was 17. That's my advice. If you want it, that would be how. Be ready for some rejection, so don't really get your heart set on a girl you talk to that happens to live near you. If you're shy, like me, that is how.

    But ...just saw that you're from India lol Girls out there might be more conservative, I don't know. But, yeah, try out my advice.
     
  5. wiggy

    wiggy Bitch

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    Dont worry about it there is to much pressure of blokes especially about getting laid, seriously wait, dont be stupid and do a drunken one night stand without using anything and without knowing the person.

    I say go to a few gatherings and festivals and get to know people, you never know when someone special is waiting around the corner just for you
     
  6. fexurbis

    fexurbis Member

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    Virginity is neither good nor bad. It is.

    If you want a cheap f***, you know where to get it. If you want to build a human connection, you'll need to see a woman as a friend first.
     
  7. alessandria77

    alessandria77 Member

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    im 15 (yes i know) and i lost it to the completely wrong person at the worst time. i say wait for someone dude...

    good things come to those who wait.
    peace
     
  8. fexurbis

    fexurbis Member

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    Sorry to hear it.
     
  9. dspiel

    dspiel Member

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    I was 22 when I first had sex. It was wonderful sex. I'll admit that I'm often surprised when people my age haven't had sex, but I'm actually running across quite a number these days. Everyone has different experiences. 18 certainly isn't a big deal.

    And it's definitely better it be later and good than earlier and suck.
     
  10. elconejo

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    i would love to believe in this, but getting stuck in the 'friends zone' with someone you really like doenst help matters. anyway out of that?
     
  11. legend 1967

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    First: Just think about & then list all the reasons why girls would want and should want to engage in sex with you rather than with someone else.

    Next:Then go forth and educate them about yourself.:cheers:
     
  12. crud3w4re

    crud3w4re I like Grunge.

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    Yes, but you're female, he's a guy. It's different for a guy. Almost every girl I ever met regretted it lol And almost every guy I met was indifferent to it
     
  13. huggiebear

    huggiebear Member

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    become aquatences not friends as then you get into the "its weird coz your my friend" section... get to know them a little then make some moves. or tell her/him how you feel

    i lost mine when i was 18 and i can tell you im extremely glad i waited. if you do it young you do it with the wrong person. why not try it with the one you want to be with forever... your feelings might chance in a year or so but atleast the first time ment something
     
  14. RULO86

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    I´m 25 and I´m still virgin... I want to love a woman!!
     
  15. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

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    It may not be as easy in India to have a sexual relationship as in the U.S. And 18 is still young - you have many years ahead of you. I had my first intercourse at about your age, and about 8,000 times later, still going strong.
     
  16. crud3w4re

    crud3w4re I like Grunge.

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    Yeah, be an asshole.
     
  17. dropsomenyc

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    I've had many, many conversations about the friend zone, and the only conclusion that we can come up with is making somewhat sexual comments to the one you like, but in a way that they can be taken a couple of ways. Also touching is real important. Touch the small of her back and guide her through a door, look deep into her eyes. See how much you can communicate without saying anything. She'll pick up on it.
     
  18. DreamweaverXXX

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    thanx for the reply... guys...
    all of u...
    i am indebted to u....
     
  19. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I lost mine when I was your age and I regretted it. I ended up extremely disappointed. Serves me right for doing it with a whore who only wanted money and not with someone who genuinely wanted to go to bed with me.

    Look, if all you want is a cheap fuck so you can finally lose your virginity then you don't need to ask for advice, you just need to save some money.

    But if you want your first time to be special then I suggest you focus on looking for and developing a meaningful relationship first. Don't rush - I really wish I had waited.
     
  20. Cellophane flower

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    i am girl and i am virgin :p I THINK ITS GOOD ;)ITS COOL
     

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