I really don't mind smoking people up but, when my friend knows I have weed and brings other people along to smoke, It pisses me off. I feel like she's using my pot to make herself feel cool. Now that's just not cool. Same thing goes for my cigarettes.
Just be serious and firm (not angry or mean, just serious and firm) and tell her that she can't just bring people along to smoke without you telling her it's okay, and that you don't want her inviting people along. Tell her that if she does it again, her friends won't get any, and neither will she (that time), and explain that you choose who you want to smoke up with YOUR weed, and that she can't just bring people along; it's not polite, and it can't keep happening. Just calmly explain this with a serious but non-angry tone. =)
i know what you mean. people are constantly bumming cigarettes and rides and weed from me. but im too passive to say no.
i dont mind sharing my weed with a buncha friends, we all share like that but for something like...damn, take a stand! having a buncha random peeps come over everytime you wanted to have a nice bowl kinda blows.
next time u need weed go 'hey can you give me some money for weed hun, im short on cash atm' and shes like 'yur gonna pay me back ' and ur like 'umm you sorta owe it to me' and shes like 'waht if i give you a blow job nistead' and you like 'dammit..'
Tell her what you want to say. I really dont have anything useful for you that hasnt already been said, i just wanted to ask... who's that in your sig? i love female rockers.
no worries bro. when she comes over with her friends, just pack a bowl. snap it in one hit, look at them and be like YAH WUT!! then repeat process again until high.
Its a cunts trick when people take the piss when they know you're pretty laid back and passive and probably dont like confrontation, thats why she comes to yours cos she know others wouldn't allow it. Its common courtesy to bring something to smoke yourself if ur going for a blaze at a mates. For example, a mate of mine didn't come to mine at all last week cos he had no weed to bring and said he'd feel guilty for smoking mine. Obviously I told him not to be daft & said next time to come round anyway.....BUT the difference is I know he won't take the piss and if it was the other way round he'd do the same for me, thats what true mates are for, sounds to me like you've got a hanger onner there, follow Bills advice and at least make sure you're getting SOMETHING out of it, or better still, tell her to GO FUCK HERSELF!! (politely of course!)
Sorry, just noticed you're a girl so forget the blowjob advice initiated by SB!!!:& It probably wouldn't work too well!!