Nearly got into a fight the other night

Ok, so im an 18 year old guy, was at a bar the other night. This guy (my friends boyfriend) who ive never met before in my life just comes up to me and kisses me on the lips, I think hes about 22-24. So i went mental and was like what the fuck are you doing. So he grabs me by the jacket and im like ''Get the hell off of me now'' and eventually our friends split us up. He had the nerve to call me homophobic(he's straight himself), now I dont know about you, but some person you dont even know coming up to you and kissing you on the lips is pretty damn disrespectful, its not homophobic at all to get annoyed over it. So then outside the club things kicked off again, our friends having to keep us apart again, I cant go out without some asshole spoiling it for me. As he left in the taxi he looked at me and made a ''sliced throat'' your dead impression, so I just gave him the middle finger back. I'm sick of people treating me like shit so I stuck up for myself. Wonder if he will start anything next time we see each other, your thoughts people?

 

That's pretty crazy. Was he drunk??? I would be pissed if anyone I didn't know came up and kissed me on the lips, same sex or not, that's just rude. And weird.

 

If he wasn't drunk, then either grow a moustache or a beard and leave no doubt as to your gender (androgyny can be a curse)


Hotwater

 

I'd take it as a compliment.

 

i'd be insulted or complimented depending upon the attractiveness quotient of the kisser. if that person was really ugly, smelly and a total asshole, i'd be insulted and would likely haul off and punch him. i've been known to bite, as well. however, i've been kissed a couple times by strangers who were hot enough to make me feel complimented.

 

seriously Rubin would it bother you some guy kissing you?
S

 

Nope, wouldn't bother me. I wouldn't really get anything out of it, and would be a tad suprised, but nope... it wouldn't bother me. (Unless, like KC said, the guy was hideous... that's just not nice in any sense). I've had random people kiss me before... I say, share the love. I'm not gonna kiss them back, no sir (Unless their first name is David and last name is Bowie)... but I won't be bothered by it.

 

i've been kissed by random people a few times. i've never been real sure why. one guy, though, i worked with and it pissed me off so i bit his nose. he was a brute of a guy, it was my only option. that was the only time it was truly objectionable. he strong-armed me. no, i won't tolerate it. but i can't see pavel here being bothered by it at all.

 

I must be going to the wrong parties...

 

it sounds like the guy that was doing the kissing did it to get a reaction, not as a sexual thing and by the sounds of it it completely worked
S

 

Was it a fluke, or do you think there is something else to the story? Like your common friend and all possibly?


Whatever it is, it isn't respectful. If some gorgeous woman came to me and kissed me the very first time I saw her, it would still be disrespectful. Even though it may be pleasurable at the same time.

 

i'm totally on pavel's side for this one...i go to parties and get kissed by strangers and i have no problem with it....i love kisses
i'd totally take it as a compliment

 

I hope I meet you at a party one day....Jess I think your name is. I'd give you all kinds of "compliments"

Anywho, Id get pissed if some guy came up to me and kissed me, no matter what he looked like. I'd prolly hit the fellow in the jaw out of instinct, but take it as a compliment after thinking about it. I don't have a problem with homosexuals, but I would have a problem with a guy kissing me. But thats just me.

PEACE

 

I just cannot imagine causing so much confrontation because of something as silly and minuscule as a kiss. It's not like the guy is grabbing your dick and dragging you to his house by it.

Yet again, I'm rather non-confrontational.

 

As am I, there are very few things in life that would cause be to "break red". And I guess I really don't know what I would do in that situation, because I've never been there.

The closest I've been to being hit on my a guy, was after a huge fireworks show on the river in Louisville. We walked back to my ex's house (about 5 miles) and on the way we passed this gay bar. I wasn't wearing a shirt, and as we walked by I heard a bunch of wistles and comments you would expect to hear if you are a naked female walking past a construction crew on lunch break. I turned around only to see a 6'5'', 350 pound biker wearing assless chaps licking his finger.

 

Hahahah

You should have asked him for a ride on his Harley

 

lol, Even I would pay money to see the look on my face when I turned around. If I have ever been homoPHOBIC, it was then. I think my balls were trying to hide, because I felt them coming up my throat.

 

At least it wasn't a 7'4" 500 pound biker

 

Heh, I worked some overtime today, some guy from the apartments corporate office is coming monday, so my manager asked if I would spend some extra time sprusing the place up.

These 2 kids (13 or 14 maybe) started asking questions about why my pants were ripped at the knee. Just some kickboxing stuff. I don't usually wear pants that are ripped, but laundry kinda built up on me.

So I said, guess?

So they guessed I ripped them. I said good guess. I think I wasn't paying attention to them, so this one kid starts calling me gay.

I wasn't paying attention, so I went about my business.

Then about 5 minutes later, the kids showed up around another side of the building. They were calling me gay again. The one who was talking all the shit was holding a plastic flower.

I said, why the flower?

He said, some more stuff about gay, and I wasn't paying attention to him, he said he would kill me.

I turned around.

"really?"

Yeah, I got my knife. I'd slash your throat.

I put down the trash can I was holding, and looked straight at him.

Then he said, the only reason I'm not is because I don't want to go to jail.

I walked towards him, and said, "I wouldn't either."

When I was about ten feet away from him, he started dashing. I walked up to his friend and told him to keep his boy outta trouble.

Little holigans. Heh.

 

yeah me too

waaahhhh get over it. if you dont like it dont go to bars. and if its such a problem then what was stopping you from just knocking him? then he might get the picture.