If you could have a relationship with a woman with only ONE of the following three things, which would it be and why? A) Great Personality B) Sexual Appeal C) Very Intelligent I wrote "Sexual Appeal" instead of "Great Body" because I want that option to be a combination of having a great body and willing to do whatever you want in bed. I would rather have kinky sex with an average looking girl than vanilla sex with the most attractive woman on the planet.
Bahahaha. You're 16. You haven't had enough sexual experience yourself yet to really know. If the question was flipped, I would pick C. I like intelligent men - and usually sex appeal and a great personality are close to follow him...
But it WASNT flipped, and shall I tell you why ? Because this here is the MANS forum in case no one told you, so theres no need for YOU to go Bahahaha, OK ? And by the way, I vote B)
Above all, this is a free speech forum - so leave your Gentlemen's Only Club crap at the door. Good day!@!!
Thats an easy question to me. Id say without a shadow of a doubt "sex appeal". I can go out and have fun / stimulating conversation with my friends. Some people would say "oh thats really wrong" but Im like well , how the hell can I screw someone I dont fancy. Theyd be a friend. However if she was really stupid/ boring I wouldnt spend a lot of time with her . If she was a really evil piece of work Id prob screw her grudgingly and fall out with her very quickly
I garee that women should be perfectly free and welcome to speak here. But if youre going to stand for a womans right to free speech wherever please dont be ageist. You judged this person immediately on their age. Thats something i cant stand. I cant stand it for young OR older people, it shows ignorance. That guy could have years and years and tons more sexual experience than you. Bad experience in childhood, early experimentation, anything. Do not judge so qucikly
You're saying the more I have sex, the more I will enjoy it? I don't think sex appeal could be any more important to me than it is now, because of my hormones, frenzys, and unrealistic expectations (thank you media); however, you don't know my thought processes, or that even with all this I may be an exception. This is a hypothetical situation, if you picked intelligent man, he doesn't get to have sex appeal or a great personality in this senario. One could make an arguement that intelligence affects personality and vice versa and that both affect sex appeal, but the purpose of this question is to make you think about which one is the most important to you as a person. Its a joke really, because research has shown that for men in general, looks are most important. For women in general, how much money the man has and earns is most important.
bullshit!!!!!! you said, relationship... how the hell can you have a relationship with someone u cant stand just cause theyre good in bed... personality is utmost importance in relationships, the ability to get along, like eachother as people and respect eachotrher as humans...otherwise u might as well stick to hookers by your definition sure a lil sexy nympho who will do anythinmg for you is a nice lil fantasy,m but in a relationship what good is that if u cant stand spending time with her are u gonna grow up to be some ignorant wifebeatter type why mistreats your woman but keeps her around to abuse sexualy and physica;ly/emotionaly cause u get off on it? or are u gonna habvve a mature relationship with an actual person with a personality... hey..stick to porn and your own hand....then u dont gotta worry bout inteligence or personality,
Holy judgemental people He just asked, if you could only have one of the three in a relationship, what would you have? That was the whole extent of the original topic, yes? So how does his age factor into it? Or listing a study he'd read? Simmer down people, attacking the credibility of the OP does nothing in the way of making you look better.
I picked intelligence.Good conversations and understanding the big pictures are most important to me.If she's intelligent enough,she will understand what her personality is like and adjust it accordingly.If she is intelligent,she will know how to make me feel good sexually and let me know what pleases her also.Yeah--so intelligence trumps the others.(am I a dreamer or what?)
good point, but i still would say that personality is top, think about it, you can have a hyper inteligent phd holding superscientist type whos all intelect with no personality at all, boring, or even downright cold hearted, and fine you can discuss quantum physics, but at the end of the day shes still just a cold heawrted nasty person...or you could have a borderline retard whos very kind and loving and treats u right, and is just delightful to be around ..i think all 3 aspects are important, you need sex appeal and personality and inteligence to have a well rounded relationship and have respect as well, but if you had to choose just 1 personality is by far the hardest of the 3 to find one that matches yours confortably
You can't have B for very long without A. And C is pretty much a given in anyone who has A. So I'm all for personality. I don't care how hot your body is, what you will do for me in bed, or how much money you make, if you don't have a good personality, you have no sex appeal. They do say the most important sex organ is between your ears. I can't say I've met a man who I would describe as having a "great personality" who didn't have sex appeal... Intelligence is important, but if he can't have an intelligent conversation with me, how can I think he has a "great personality"? I mean, there is no objective definition of what a "great personality" is, merely one that is compatible with the person doing the categorizing... Someone can be very nice, have a fun personality, but if there's nothing going on upstairs, then they get boring pretty quickly, so that is not what I would call a "great personality". On the other hand, I'm not exactly in MENSA, so someone who is exceedingly intelligent is likely to find me less than stimulating. So perhaps you could explain what a "great personality" means to you?
I have male friends with great personalities and who are smart as hell. But you don't see me dating them.
So, the loser is Intelligent chicks. What do guys like this want? Someone who they will never lose an argument to? Y'all want nothing but dumb chicks? I couldn't tolerate a stupid man. My dh can't stand womyn who can't argue a point or have no education or intelligence or interests. (Hint: He couldn't stand Anna Nichole.) Jeez. A smart womyn will do more for you than either of the other two. OTOH, again Scratcho says something worthwild. Yay. Scratch!
Eagle, for the most part, one can't have intelligence and have no personality. Likewise, people with interesting personalities are usually very intelligent. I don't know if the two can actually be separated. Green, for many men looks may be more important in Attraction, but for long term relationships, it isn't all that imporant. Look at alll the "Beautiful" cheerleader types who get dumped 6 or 7 times or more a year. She may attract you, if she is really pretty, but that will NOT keep you for any time.
