I Need To Know Something

recently i j/o my bf while in the moment what im afraid of is that hen "banged" me after i jack him off

can i get pregnant?
an how long does sperm live?

 

please help

 

Sperm lives for a while if his dick is still wet. if it dries out it doenst have much of a lifespan. he probably had fresh wet semen left in the shaft of his penis and you can certianly get pregnant by having unprotected sex. go to a doc and get the morning after pill

 

we didnt have sex
she just fingered me thats all

 

he just fingered me?


and if there was cum on his fingers (if it was him) would most likely be killed in the few seconds it was exposed but thats not a garentee if your worried get the mourning after pill.

 

what does that pill do?

 

the pill tells your body your already pregnant so that a fertilized egg wont attachitself to your womb. it does NOT abort a pregnancy, if you are already pregnant than it wont do anything, BUT if his sperm did fertilize your egg, you arent pregnant untill taht egg attaches itself to your womb which will tkae a couple of days. since he fingered you teh chances are lessened but theres always the possibility he got some on hsi fingers.

 

according to him he never touched their while we were in the moment

 

It is likely that the sperm which might have gotten onto his fingers died after exposure to air. Also, after you jerked him off, he may have used a towel to wipe himself and his hands, or washed them, which would have eliminated the sperm. You are probably ok, but take the morning after pill anyway if you can get one.
And have him be more careful next time.

 

If you dont know what the morning after pill does then you shouldnt even be doing stuff like that. Didnt you do sex ed at school?

 

Exactly what i was about to say. If you dont know about sex dont do it.
Just like if you dont know about brain surgery dont perform an operation...see what im getting at?

 

so the sperm dies once they hit the air?

 

I think Cutted is right wiz hiz last phrase.... im not being rude or smthn... .... c ya around

 

IOn3ly : Go and get the pill, then go hit the internet. Try typing in Teen Sex Advice...you seriously need to do some sensible research.

As for the Sperm and it's lifespan in the open air...it depends on the situation and its environment and the actual sperm count. Sperm needs a certain temperature to stay alive, so a higher sperm count can affect the 'live time' of the individual sperm. On average, Sperm can't survive outside the body for more than a few hours, but it can survive up to 7 days inside the womans body.

You can get pregnant, if your partner has sperm on his fingers and comes into contact with your vagina, so it is important to see someone, take the proper precautions, and
emergency contraception as soon as possible.

I almost must air my feelings, that if you are unaware of the risks of sex, and pregnancy issues, that this is an area in which you should investigate from a better source of information, than this forum. If you are too embarrassed to talk to a teacher, hit the internet and read some reliable sources by doing relevant searches as I suggested before.

However, I suppose it is to be commended that you have at least asked someone, rather than worry in silence, and I hope you sort the issue out soon.

Go and get the pill - if this has occurred within the last 72 hours(3 days)...but talk to the prescribing professional first! On the pill - you will most likely get a period soon, and will have a few more cramps than normal, and that will end the matter. If your period doesn't show up within the next few weeks, go back and see the professional health care adviser.

I wish you luck.

 

Please allow me to suggest you study up on the art of analogy.

People have always stumbled their way into sex... as far as seeking help or doing research, this is precisely what she is doing here.

 

Being "in the heat of the moment" is a dangerous thing, especially when you: 1. don't have a condom and 2. still have a lot to learn about sex. Put off any sexual activity until you know what you're doing.

 

listen to some love line and call dr. drew

 

I think these are sad times if people need to listen to "LoveLine" or call "Dr Drew Pinsky" and comedian Adam Corolla for love and sex advice. They are rampant egos, taking calls from fifteen year old girls who want to have an orgasm. Or 39 year old guys who can't come when their wife is on top.

I have heard Corolla make racist comments. He generally tries to employ the "I'm an insensitive, conservative, Republican type making crude hurtful comments... isn't that funny!?" type of humor. It gets old fast.

And why would Pinsky, a doctor who supposedly wants to help people, team up with such a man? I know what he would say in answer; I think there's more to it.


I once heard a man of Hispanic descent call in for advice, and Corolla immediately started talking as if the man was about to join a gang and go into a life of crime/prison, etc. The young man had said nothing to indicate this, other than being Hispanic.

To add to that, Corolla said, "Pablo, I see you costing me money here some time in the future..." What. The. Fuck.

If Pinsky took an oath to help people, and first do no harm, he sure failed when he didn't step in on that one. It was blatantly racist. And ugly.



l0n3ly, just be aware that your boyfriends ejaculate can make you pregnant. It's not likely this will happen from touching him with your hand, and certainly not from oral sex.


Basically, sperm from your boyfriend's body have to travel up your cervical canal, into the uterus and fallopian tubes, and finally penetrate your egg. a fair amount of conditions have to be in place for this to happen.


Just be aware of how pregnancy happens and avoid it. Any vaginal sex, even with a condom, can result in pregnancy. Do not trust the "pull out" method.

Other than that, don't worry. Enjoy yourself! This is what life is for.

 

Well I think Loveline's the shit. Coincidentally, I think racism is the shit. It's funny. People that are uptight about things don't realize that stuff that's funny is actually funny. Like loveline. And racism. And little girls that think they're pregnant every other week.

If you don't know what the fuck's going on with something, you probably shouldn't touch it.