Living on our own....for what?

Staying with my parents really wouldn't have been the best thing for me...

 

i know how to work the washer machine...its the dryer that gives me the problems...fucking dryer

 

i cook, i clean, i do laundry, i work around my house
for the most part my parents are pretty generous to me and i am greatful..we just have our clashes

 

The things I do that my parents do not approve of...well, let's just say they aren't aware that I do them. They still think I'm their perfect little angel, just a little too old to be living at home. As far as school goes, they really can't say anything to me about the fact that I'm not in college, because they haven't done a thing to help me pay for it or find financial aid. We're under the understanding that as long as I keep a steady job and pay for most of my wants and needs, I can stay here. The problem is, though, I just don't feel welcome anymore. My brother is constantly trying to push me away, because he's almost 16 and I guess he really wants some time with Mom and Dad to himself, plus he wants my room and phone line, haha.

And thank you very much, lol. I hope you didn't gather that I was pretty from my sig pics...they're not very good, lol.

 

Sorry I don’t mean to butt-in, but I love modesty wherever it flourishes

Hotwater

 

what for is to think your own thoughts, dream your own dreams and believe your own beliefs, without being dependent upon, and thus vulnerable to, someone else's coercive brainwashing.

what i think is insane about the ambient culture is not letting anyone learn gradualy and experience how to wipe their own ass and then all of a sudden, expecting them to have to and be able to.

i do see that as not only insane but inane. yet that is the way fanatics have made the ambient culture we are surrounded by.

a much better approach, is the institution my immaginary world and countries call pujzush. a two year sabatical of free wandering and optional employment, and exploration of anything and everything between the ages of 12 and 15 or thereabouts, between the completion of nine years of lower school, beggining at age 3 rather then five, so that the individual THEN HAS A CHANCE to have SOME idea of what their own intrinsic inclinations are, to base their courses of further education and aquisition of experience upon.

there's quite a bit more detail then that about how lananaran society works and why.

but back on this earth, you're screwed at every age, one way or another, anyway.

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Look, I will show you ONE MORE TIME but that is it...

 

I've been living on my own since I was 17, never regretted it because moving out from my parents' house was the right thing to do. If I had stayed, I probably would have gone nuts a long time ago.. I like living on my own, I can take care of myself just fine and I don't feel any more lonely than I would if I lived with the parents still.

 

you know you will just have to show me again another time

i think it might be easier for you just do it for me

 

I do my own laundry and buy groceries. I was saying that it would be more financially intelligent to share a mortgage.

 

You've said it perfectly....

 

Same here

 

i agree. i miss squating. ive lived with mad people all my life except this last year.hotels grr. no neighbors i know , n its in industrial area. so i cant walk around n talk to folks nothing but semis driving around. no homeless to drink with.sumtimes i think get a car a license. but naw id be drunk driving the first week.i need a chauffer.thinkin of movin hotels but thatd cost more. sanity is werth it.

 

oh squaters are like family you get to pick. squatmoms are the control freaks like parents i guess.its alot better than a nuclear family.needing each other breeds a closeness unlike casual friendships or roomates.if i dont have chaos i will create it. my versions a bit dangerous tho.should always have folks around to blame n bless . it distracts us from an unreasonable reality.

 

I'm 24 and I still live with my dad. I moved out for a couple of years, but have ended up back here to concentrate on school...now I'm graduated and finishing up some responsibilities before I move on.

He doesn't pressure me to move out, mostly because I do a lot around here and since he doesn't have a driver's license, I'm like a live-in cheauffer...

I don't mind living here, really. I mean, I come and go when I please, I don't have to pay rent, no one is really here except to sleep. I buy my own groceries, cook my own food, and clean up after myself...so basically, I live on my own anyway...just no rent.

 

I moved out at 18, but returned last week. I much much much rather live on my own. Perhaps, if I didn't live with a bunch of crazies my mind would be different. I like being independent from my mom. I don't mind some reasonable rules but I hate when my mom demands I do something. On top of it, I'll probably be kicked out of the house 10 times because my mom is so irrational, even though I still have to pay rent(it's cheaper than an apartment and I can keep my dog so I'm not complaing about that). I can't take the fighting between family members, especially my sister and mom. I could go on and on about how much better life in general is when I don't live at home. I've been back for less than a week and I'm already completely miserable. I think family, at a certain age, is better in small doses and from afar....well at least mine. I luv em to to death but AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I think living on your own, despite sometimes shabby conditions, is quite liberating. Hopefully, I'll liberate myself REAL REAL soon!!!

 

that guy looks like curt cobain. if hes not dead i have a friend whode enjoy stalking him. well prolly 20 friends of both genders. if i had parents ide be in there basement right now. making jello moulds fer bakesales . oh shit

 

dont worry i wiped twice. anyhoo your parents prolly did the same shit. n your kids will do it to you. take your time n get it right. toothles male pornstar on. hes got a hawk. ever notice how many male porn stars are punks?anyhoo ask yerself how old were they when i was born? over 30? prolly did same shit. 16? u know they did.your parents exist to serve you. thats what they tell themselves in movies.