My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationshp for a year and 8 months. the last time i went to visit him, i found some naked pictures of his ex-girlfriend on his computer. they were recent pictures. i also found a conversation they had where they were doing webcamera and he told her that he wouldn't be at home for a while but not to say anything dirty if she saw him online b/c his family would see. he wasn't out of town- that is when i was there at his house. the only thing is- my boyfriend and i live in different countries. the other girl and him also live in different countries. i dont know if i should confront him about this or not b/c i dont want him to get mad at me for snooping and i dont know if it is worth it. then again, how could i stand for it?
You have become aware of information that may be very upsetting to you. Based upon the limited information provided about the relationship,it may be best for you to decide upon what action,if any, may be most appropriate.
lol at that reply. What the fuck? good boyfriends don't cheat and have webcam chats and naked pics of their ex girlfriends. obviously, this guy isn't a good boyfriend. your snooping is nothing compared to what he is doing. he has no right to be angry at you for snooping, considerign what you've found.
look at it this way. if it was you, and he found all this. how would he react? i'd think pretty rationally. not like you, seeking advice. i'd print off those things, bring them up to him, and if doesnt apologize right then, he would be gone. it would be a she, if i was in a boots mind...but still. kick his ass! lol.
OK -- naked pictures of his ex-gf are a problem, no matter what. If you just found some naked pictures of pornstars that he downloaded from the internet, even some porn clips, then that's not a big deal. But keeping naked pictures of an ex suggests that there are still some feelings there, which means he's not likely ready to move on. Already that's not acceptable. But they're recent? Cut ties. You live far too far apart for this to last after he destroyed your trust like that. There is about a snowball's chance in hell of this lasting, unless you're happy to share your man with god knows how many women. Move on and find someone who lives in the same town (not just same country!) as you, so that you can actually date and establish a real bond of trust. Clearly whatever you thought you had with this guy was nothing more than an illusion.
i would dump him for someone who will treat you the way you deserve cuz it sounds like you just want him to be happy but fuck him dude
no need to confront him, you now know his true nature. Pics and convos with ex's are bad, but when shes sending him naked pics thats different. i would dump him for someone who will treat you the way you deserve cuz it sounds like you just want him to be happy but fuck him dude
