So a friend of my house mate introduced us to this guy that lives around the corner from our house, ever since i met this guy he's been coming over alot and it shits me off but not that much, he'd always go around the side of the house and never knock on the front door (wtf?) but i let it go. He made out with some chick on my bed and got fucking mud in my room and stole my beer, i let it go. He stabbed me through my fucking arm with a safety pin, i let it go. I didnt want to say anything to my house mate but i've been getting sick of him, he brings bad fucking vibes to the house all the time. Well last night he and my house mate went to my house mates boyfriends place (he was having a party) and this guy got smashed was being a dick head and refused to leave... they had to use 'active physical persuasion' to make him leave. Well now she (my house mate) has realised what this guys about, i just dont want any problems is all, i dont want arguments i dont want conflic, if you havent gathered by how much i've let go, im not into conflict. this isnt a question or even a topic just a rant about something thats been shitting me off for awhile now.
you let way too much stuff go....id speak up. if someones disrespecting you or your space you need to say something or its only gonna get worse.i can understand you not wanting a conflict or any trouble but its gonna get to a point where enough is enough
Yeah i know, but i feel no anger not even at this point, i dont have any wrath in me which i dont mind, but your right i do let too much shit go, i consider my self a respectful person so it is in my nature to assume that over others too. Point is he is my house mates friend but i think after last night she had enough of him too.
None of that shit should of happened from the start, if your spooked and cant get them straight up, a ball bat usually makes things equal. Stomp that fucker in the ground and tell them to keep out of your pad!
I'm all about peace and all of that good stuff... but if he comes back to your place looking for trouble... have a bat handy... just in case.
Yes this is true, I'm the type of person that gives people extensive opportunity to correct their own behaviour but i will be standing my ground alot further with alot more people, with out anger as you said.
Douchebags don't correct their own behavior. You need to draw the line, and if it's crossed again, shut him down. If you don't want violence, verbal strength is a powerful thing. I haven't had to throw a punch in over 20 years.
See, I'm the type of person who would've said something... I can't stand when people are that rude when over at my house.... if they were a friend of my roommate's or whomever, I wouldve at leaste talked to the roommate.
Well its my first time out of home so i really have had to learn alot about looking after my own space and property. There were alot of issues that i wasnt totally aware of at first.
I say take that safety pin of his and shove it up his pee hole. Honestly if someone came into my house and did that, s/he would'nt be coming back. I say let him have it, but try to be calm about it, express your frustration towards him.
