if your significant other cheated on you

i disagree with this saying. i cheated once and ONCE only and will NEVER do it again to anyone. it's a terrible thing to have to go through and it hurt so badly; i never want to feel that type of pain. i'm STILL paying for it a year and a half later because my ex doesn't even want to be friends with me. and i miss him as a friend, someone to laugh with.. ya know?
i will never cheat again though and that's for sure.

 

damn, you weren't even on the bad side of it. karma looks to have been a bitch to ya

i guess that getting cheated on or cheating on someone who ends up stonewalling you teaches you a damn good lesson in life. be truthful, always... and - a life long friendship is worth more than a night you are going to regret. think.

maybe the once a cheater always a cheater thing doesn't work. once you have been cheated on, the trust of the monogamous relationship has pretty much been broken forever. the cheater might change but once the cheater renders his/her own word to be useless, they've shot themself in the foot and the relationship in the head. sure, nobody is perfect but that is one tough mountain to overcome.

 

yeah, true words my friend. true words.
:/ it sucks but i did learn my lesson...
and it's a damn hard lesson to learn.

 

cheating doesnt mean they were in love with you. if they loved you, cheating wouldnt even be in there vocabulary as far as im concerned

 

why did you cheat on your ex beatlerific? if you dont mind me asking

 

you know some people dont want or expect fidelity ......some do but dont deserve it ....beatleriffic is cute , so if she "cheated "on me that would mean that we had hung out together ...and i should be happy for that ....so nothing is 100% of what you think it should be and nothing lasts forever .....in short fidelity is overrated ...freedom underrated .

 

i was just stupid at the time.
and yes, i really did love him. there's absolutely no doubt about that.
people make mistakes.

 

im sory to use your personal situation situation to elucidate what i believe to be a horrible ball and chain preventing progress and happiness for humans ....specificaly the 'happy couple ' and the 'nuclear family' ....i put it to you that theese bad habits -institutions represent the primary seperation that supports industry , alianated labor , capitolism ...and prevents folks from getting together with more than a specified spouse n puppies instead with a bunch of peeps , and saying no to athority opression and the narrow horrid hopeless booring life that corporate-military assholes hope to perpetuate...so we as humans can kill our masters and walk into the sunshine and be free to manifest a myriad of different broad and interconected associations

 

My whole thing is this: if you've broken up once already, it's a sign that maybe the two of you shouldn't be together, so STAY BROKEN UP. In my experience, with my relationships + with every other dating relationship that I've seen friends and family go through, never once has breaking up and getting back together has ever worked, EVER.

Irrigardless of how much you think a person has changed, or how much you think you love them, the second time 'round just isn't going to work. Best to let sleeping dogs lie.

 

hah that was funny as hell and I agree.

def don't take her back

 

Dump.
One time would be all it'd take.
Then, even if I took him back, I'd want to torture him for the rest of his life over it. Plus, the paranoia factor.
..So, it wouldn't be worth it for either one of us.

 

here's an update on mr. annonymous and his whore friend, they have gotten a house and are currently living together with 3 dogs. she now has his name tatted on her left shoulder(back) and he thinks that, that is proving that she is trustworthy. remember, she cheated on him 3 times. fun for the whole family.

 

nevermind

 

perfectly said

 

duuuude.
if my man cheated on me id crack him in his jaw and then dump his ass. and not only that id also crack the bitch that he cheated on me with. unless of course she didnt know. anyways im not a fan of cheaters if they do it once theyll do it again.

 

Then she'd be my insignificant other.

 

once is more than enough for me to kick em to the curb.... and if your at the stalker level.. HELLLO get a grip dude.. not worth it her slutty ass is making you look like a skeezy psycho... and no girl wants to fuck a skeezy psycho thats worse than a jackass..