Want to help me with masturbation?

Okay, so, the whole masturbation thing, ive experimented countless times, but can never really get off and make myself cum (with fingers, that is...) any GOOD suggetions? (other than a shower head thingy cuz mines attached to the wall :$ ) i know theyres countless things i could use, but what are some of the...i guess, most reccommended?

 

er, ...ah,...maybe a man with an active tongue?

 

ILove - A guy's tongue on your clitoris, and perhaps a pair of educated fingers on your g-spot, would be the best way to do it.

For solo enjoyment, get a good lube, such as KY, vaseline or olive oil, and stroke your clitoris in the way that is most pleasurable for you. Be aware that the female orgasmic response varies widely - about 25% of you can get orgasms from intercourse alone, 25% from intercourse and manual stimulation combined, 25% from manual only, and 25% never experience orgasms. I believe that many in the last group have low sexual drive, or just don't know or are not aware of how to do it.

When you try to orgasm through masturbation, be aware that it could take you fifteen minutes or more of constant stimulation to get there. And make sure you constantly relube your genital area so you do not get any chafing or soreness. Report back on your success, if you will.

 

Get a good vibrator.

 

well yeah, i love oral sex, but i mean when my bfs not arond

 

Do you like oral sex when your boyfriend is around? That might help.

 

of course, but he cant be around ALL the time, and its not like he can just come over whenrever i want it, he works and i still live with my parents

 

get a good vibrater, or i reccoment the clit/g-spot combo, you can do this your self, go on, give it a go ya know ya wanna

 

if i was you, i would do a quick search on how to do some tricks with your fingers. Maybe you arent hitting the right area, there could be a number of different combos that influence you not being able to get off with your own fingers. But the truth is, the more educated about yourself you are, the better chance you are to be able to cum. And if you dont want to do that, then go to your local sex shop (or online...im sure you can find a place that will accept money orders instead of credit cards) and buy a vibe. im sure you can find one thats pretty cheap? Right girls? lol

 

i find an orgasm is mostly mental, try chatiing with somone while you do it, and let him stimulate your mind.