i know he's just looking out for me but...

My boyfriend of a year and a half doesnt want me doing any drugs except booze and alcohol. he claims hes already been there and done that and doesnt want to see my life goto shit.

Thats fine because i have no desire to try herion, coke, ocs, anything like that really. But i want to take exstacy again and i would also like to take shrooms for the first time. i wish he would lighten up.

 

you could always just.. kill him.... DUN DUN DUNNN

 

whats the difference between booze and alcohol...?

 

i ment weed and alcohol, sorry.

 

Girl girl, why dont you tell him to mind his own fuckin business and stop trying to tell you what you can and cant do? Trust me, TRUST ME! that is the beginning of a controlling relationship, and if he cant understand your desire to explore, then he is being closed minded and you are definitley wasting your time. Your 17 for fucks sake, I mean not that Im saying whore yourself around and try every drug under the sun, but I am saying dont let some guy run your life and not allow you to do what god has given you the right to do! It is your body, not his, you may do whatever the hell you want to it and he does not have any say in that matter. (unless you are seriously damaging yourself then his thoughts might actually be saving you, I dont know your situation entirley but you dont seem like a junkie to me, just a curious young woman)

 

Try shrooms!

No dont "try" shrooms

Try to overdose on shrooms, its much more fullfiling that way.

 

@ OD comment: wtf
Explain to him that alcohol kills more people every year than shrooms ever will. As for rolls... Not really worth the possibility of neurotoxicity, imo. But it's your business.

 

its your body, its your decision. Explain it to him at first lightly but if he makes a big deal out of it then get a little forceful. That IS the first sign of a controlling relationship and those dont work out.. ever. By not letting you explore yourself and your surroundings he is being almost hypocritical if he has "been there himself." Do be wise about your choices tho. Im sure you will b

 

gee sounds like sort of an asshole. i once was with a girl who tried to do the exact same thing to me.. thankfully i've outgrown relationships like that. it is a sign of the guy being too controlling.

personally i don't smoke cigarettes and I don't drink alcohol... never do anymore.
but I do smoke pot and I enjoy eating 'shrooms and doing mescaline. from what I can tell doing what I do seems like a way healthier alternative to alcohol, which isn't even a very interesting experience after you've done it a few times.

a study was released that showed native american peyote users scored higher on psychological tests than many non-users and scored significantly higher than those who drank alcohol. hmm...

 

alcohol is probably one of the worst drugs out there. Ive done plenty of drugs and alcohol is the one that almost killed me. Almost died Hendrix style. Anyways as far as e and shrooms go shrooms are completly harmless just have a sitter and try not to pull any stoooopid shit, and with e if you get it pure its not really bad for you at all...damn government propaganda

 

sounds like a sign of incompatabilty. he doesn't want to date someone who uses drugs, and he has the right to make that choice, it's not necessarily controlling. If that's not you then you're not compatible in this area, and you need to decide if that's a deal breaker. Forget about trying to change him, that doesn't work.
This might be a good topic for the Relationships Forum.

 

Peace_Attack:
Do the X without him.
Do the Shrooms without him (but have SOMEONE there the first time at the very least).

Restricting yourself simply due to anothers opinion is a bit silly, regardless of what role they may play in your life. This does not mean to discard any possible wisdom they may have but apply accordingly.

That's how I see these types of situations.