I'm home from school with an ear infection, but later my gf is coming over... I'm usually totaly frustrated with vanilla, traditional role sex but was told something that REALLY got me going. Last night, she asked if she could come over today. She told me she wanted an anal fuck, and she warned me not to stop, no matter WHAT she says. Of course I WILL stop if I can tell she's in trouble, but come on, what a day I'm gonna have!!! I'm about to buy some KY jelly, and some condoms. I think I'm gonna wait for her by my window, help her up the stairs, kiss her a couple times, help take her shoes off, and go to my room... I'll have some super-heavy metal ready and blasting so no neighbors cant hear us. I'm just gonna shove her face first onto my bed, kiss that asshole she's self conscious of- lick it, kiss it, and finally jelly it up and put my finger in... I have to do her with my fingers in first because if I just shove my cock inside her I don't think she's gonna be leaving my house without the help of an ambulance. Just thinking of my cock inside her is driving me fucking nuts... Usually the only anal I think of is with a woman and her plastic penis in ME, lol. The odd thing is I hope it kind of hurts her. I want her to like it and regret it at the same time. I think after a few minutes of fucking with her on flat down and me pounding into her, I'm gonna get up, stand by the bed, and penetrate her rectum from the front... kind of put her legs in the air, feet resting on my shoulders... That happens to be my favorite of all man on top positions. Fucking her asshole with her little feet dangling on my shoulders/in myface is just freaking me out- in a good way! The thing is, yesterday she told me I had advanced permission, no matter what. Nothing I do is rape now (within limits) I told her I'd stop if she didn't want to/didn't feel liek it. She told me no. She told me if she even decided to show up it'd be for one reason and one reason only... She was lookin' for trouble, and I had to give it to her even if she felt shy or ugly (Which she is NOT!) My only problem is gonna be how god damn horny I am... I might cum in like 2 minutes, rofl! Depending on what it's like for that poor thing my dick is in, that might be a good thing though. I'm probably just gonna boss her the fuck around all day, and after I've humiliated and desecrated her, I think I'll lick ehr pussy for a while... out of a mix of pitty and her sheer tastiness!
I think you need to have a safe word in case she really does need you to stop. Forced sex play can be fun and all, but there should be that emergency word in case some thing really bad/wrong happens.
That's what I was thinking... I despise safe words though because it makes the scene feel so fake.. I think all I need is to know the different between "Stop", stop, STOP, STOP!!! and FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, STOP!!! hahaha
Man, I would not fuck someone doing anything other than straight vanilla if they refused to use a safeword, and even that's iffy. Refusal to use a safeword somehow destroys a certain amount of trust for me, not using one is, well, scary to me. And not a good kind of scary.
I agree with the 'safe word'. My husband and I never discussed one, but since I certainly don't say his name when we're 'playing rape' or anything, that is our safe word. We never discussed it, it was just kind-of a given with us, but that's just us. I also wouldn't trust somebody that wouldn't use a safe word. If they aren't at all concerned about it, they must not care too much. I mean, even if you're screaming "for fucks sake, stop and get off me you fucking asshole" you are, after all, playing RAPE. It's harder to get the hint without a (usually totally random/silly) safe word in such a situation.
I concur on the safe word. My suggestion for a safe word? "BANANA CREAM PIE!!" And I'd hate to do this to you again CW please try not to freak out. But I don't get the poll. Could you clarify? This is not an argument.
Go out and hire Irreversible and watch it together and if you both still want to do it, go for it but it can hurt alot and don't stick foreign house hold objects up there. Warning. Have a safe word, don't be stupid, anal sex is not something that should be taken lightly EVER.
Wow dude, sounds like you've been thinking about this for a long time hey So how did it go? Details pls.
we dont have a "safe word" we/she just says "i want it in my *insert word*" or "i want it *insert word* way"
I did it. I am scared for life. I am never having vanilla male dominant sex again. PS: Safe word? You guys were right, but it was unneeded. I hate vanilla SO badly you can't imagine. I'm never gonna do it again. I don't know what to do... I nearly puked and cried at the same time. I hate vanilla. I hate vanilla.
a: It turned out to not be fake rape b: Anal is indeed vanilla. So is "kinky" sex in reguards to light s&m. Anything mainstream is vanilla, and belive me: A lot of people like anal. c: I hate being the top... the dom... HATE it.
I'm confused. Was it fake rape or wasn't it? Do you need to turn yourself in or not? You hate being dominate, but you were all "HELL YEAH, I GET TO FUCK MY GIRL IN THE CRAPPER" in your first post. What gives? Are you on crack?
it wasnt rape it wasnt fake rape. it didnt pretend to be rape. consentual COME IN ME NOW kind of stuff
and ps: what was my first post about... i guess i was enthusiastic about being dom... or at least trying desperately to be. its not me. its not.
have you told your girl? because she has a right to know, especially if you're banning vanilla sex after this like you said in a different post (I think there are varying degrees of bdsm/kinkiness, and that you calling the first few steps that most people take in exploring that venue to be vanilla rather insulting personally, but that's just my little take on it)
Kid What world are you from ? I mean kid look it listen, If she can't get her shoes on and off by herself then she ain't worth the time of day trust me .