My lady problems

I don't know if you remember this thread http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?threadid=194920 I made quite awhile ago, but things have progressed and now I've hit rock bottom. I finally just got the balls to go up to her and tell her exactly how I felt about her. She seemed a bit stunned, but after some talking we seemed to really hit it off, and began dating ( I guess you could call it that) Well, anyways, we fooled around a couple times, with nothing really leading to full out sex, and coming home at night with the blue balls began to get old. Since I share a room with my younger brother, its hard to keep secrets. He would always wonder where I was, and what I was doing, and the one night when I came home still semi-rigid, he started to giggle. Well, to make a long story short, we ended up masturbating together, no, not each other, just in front of each other, to the same porn pictures. Well, apparently my girl just happened to be watching through our window which I knew she did, and now she's a bit upset, and refuses to speak to me, or see me anymore. She told me that I was gross, and gay, and that she wished she never got as involved with me as she did. So now what? I mean it was just harmless masturbating. I didn't have sex with him, or even touch his dick. I'm not gay, I was just horny because of her. I think its time that I just crawl in a hole until this all blows over and start thinking about moving to another town because once this gets out (and it will get out because she will tell all of her friends, and they will tell everyone else) I will have NO chance with anyone here again. I just don't know how to deal with something this bad. I never dreamed it would turn out like this.

 

well, i figure sharing a room with your younger brother is not a turn-on. honestly.

 

and, okay, gross. i finally read the whole thing. that's disgusting.

 

That is nasty. You don't masturbate with your family. What if it was your dad or your mother or sister?

 

Well, its not really my choice. We live in a really small house. At least I don't have to share it with my sister. Even though I've watched her masturbate before.

 

But it was harmless. We never even touched each other. I just don't see what the big deal is.

 

What is your problem! You were masturbating with your brother, and you knew that your girfriend is watching!? And you expect her to forget that? If i was her i would have nightmares of that horrible image...

 

By that logic, you must also think it is ok to masturbate with your grandma, as long as you don't touch each other.

 

I didn't know she was watching. I knew she watched through my window, but I never even thought about that while this was going on

 

No. Thats not the same thing. This is just like masturbating with any other guy. My brother and I are close and share alot of things together.

 

Anyway man, no hard feelings but you need to se a doctor

 

:lol: :ack:

 

why do I need to see a doctor?

 

because there is something terrible wrong with you

you need a psychiatrist to streight some things up in your head

 

Why? Because I shared an intimate moment with my brother? That's crazy. My other options were to do it in our one bathroom, that doesn't have a lock on the door, and possibly be walked in on by my sister, or parents. Or in the living room, where the rest of the family was watching TV, or in my room with my brother watching. Not a whole lot of options in a tiny little house. I blame her more than anything, because she was the one who put me in that position in the first place, and didn't finish what she started. She said we could have had sex but I didn't have a condom, and don't want to use one, and she says she wouldn't have sex with me without one. I don't want to use one because it will probably just break anyways, and it takes away the feeling. Also, if I get her pregnant, then we will have a connection for the rest of our lives.

 

Oh god you are so imature!

I have nothing further to say to you

 

Why? How am I immature? I'm 21 years old. And you're 17, that is way more maturity than you even realize.

 

Unfortunately, maturity doesn't always come with age. So what if you are 21?
Oh grow up!

I bet that everyone in this forum will say that you are imature!

 

yeah, um, masturbating isn't something you want to do with the family, just a thought.

 

Jesus. That would make me not want to sleep with someone. Masturbating with their brother would weird me out, that's for sure but damn boy, you -want- to get her pregnant? Most chicks are soooo not ready to get pregnant, especially at the age where they're dating 21 year olds. You don't want to use one? Too goddamn bad, sex ain't worth the risk of STD's or pregnancy.

Man, I so would not want to fuck someone who wanted to get me knocked up. Ugh, what a huge turn off.