hi guys i am new to this forum and need somethings to ask u i hope u would help me i am a gal living in india and i am 16 yrs i have gota serious problem i am in inter 1st year of Bi.P.C and my parents have decided to marry me to my boy friend who is my cousin he too live in our house (indian jount family u know) they are marrying me when i complete my EAMCET i.e. when i will be 18 or 19 i have no probs as he was my boyfriend and i love him he is cute he is a bit shy and he is perfect according to me i know him since my childhood as he was my cousin we bboh were good friends but i do not know how the friendship cahnged into love he too loves me but there is a problem he is too religious i love him so much that i can pay anything to sleep one night with him being religious he says it is wrong to have sex with a gal before marriage he never talks to me ina romantic mood yet he and even i are ready to call themselve as a galfriend and boyfriend it is not that he hates me i know he loves me that much as i love him but the probs is that i can not sleep with him because he is religious ad i do not know any tips to get a man in my hand (allure a man) i am still a virgin and i still want to readly loose my virginity with him i tryy to bring some romantic mood (as far as i can) but i am not able to do so when i ask him he says that i will be the mos romantic man after our marriage he was my friend but he never "touched me" but we love each other the most now i need ur help just give me few sharp ideas of getting him so exited that he just lands on the bed with me please i will let u know about what happens later but plz reply all of u
First of all, why are you rushing so much? Are you that excited that you can't wait until he is ready? Any way, it's your choise, here are my tips: try with some sexy clothes, or try to show him some skin (u know what i mean) kiss him passionatly, touch him all over his body, and make him touch you make smo romantic atmosphere, candle dinner
Sania - don't do it. In your society, which is much less permissive than in the US and Europe, you could get yourself into serious trouble if you are not a virgin when you marry. If your sex drive is driving you crazy, learn to masturbate to handle this problem - you will still be a virgin.
Hey 6 points my dear First 1) I thank u for giving such wonderful reply Now I have the following probes Firstly 1) I just do not want to satisfy my desires I LOVE him LOVE LOVE LOVE I need him I just do not want something to be penetrated inside me I love him I want his sex in me not because of desire if sex but desire of heart I want to kiss him I want to…. … … … … …. Well u know what what And that could not be achieved just by inserting some dirt inside yourself Secondly 2) I gave the total description of my family so that u can understand I can not were any “dirty” dress How can I buy it? I do not earn Thirdly 3) I agree with u both that I have to be alluring but u know what I’ll give u an example I: hello He: hello I: what happen u feel upset He: my exams are hare and I did not prepare I: why He: I did not get time, u know ……(long reasons) I: well lets see can I help u He: I am 1 year elder to u how can u help me I: I can let’s take out reproduction chapter first (u know the intension) He: no it’s ok I: so how is it going He: fine (he understands my intension) He: ok then I will meet u 2moro morning its night u better sleep I: can I sleep here I will help u and then if I sleep that’s ok He: no u know that i read loudly So u will not be able to sleep here Better go to Ur room and sleep BORING What now should I say? C’mon I want to fuck u Get the heck out of Ur books and press my boobs And do not forget my wet tight pussy No No No No No No What then A person who does not want me to sleep in his room with the fear then how can I come in front of him with some cloths or with some semi nude things And he even respects me I cannot go semi naked or so I want a way by which he comes to me and he does not know that I am trying to allure him I wish he entered the bathroom when I am in the bathtub Unintentional sex And bye the way 4) In India it is a big thing to look upon if the wife has already lost her virginity but not a big problem if the wife lost the virginity by the husband himself Did u get me? If he has sex with me then it is clear that he knows I am no more a virgin And no one except him knows that I am no longer a virgin 5) What do u mean by show him ur 6) Reply quick
Sania - If your family has arranged your marriage to him, and he is religious, you will eventually have him. Count your blessings that you actualy love someone chosen for you in an arranged marriage. You say that it is not a problem in Indian society to have sex as a virgin with someone you will marry. However, are you trying to trap or lock him into marrying you by forcing sex on him? What if you do have sex with him and he later decides not to marry you? Where are you then? Some virgin women have tight hymens (flesh coverings of all or some of the vagina) which are broken and bleed when they finally have intercourse, but other women have small hymens and one would never know if they were virgins or not. In some societies where being a virgin is important, the wedding couple actually put the bedsheet in the window to show all the world that the woman was a virgin when they had sex on their wedding night - thus the blood on the bedsheet. If your sex drive is driving you crazy, learn to masturbate with your clitoris, which is outside your vagina. If you don't know where it is, look for it and you wil find it.
hi cute sania, first off, welcome to the board!! xx i can see your frustration here, big time! you wanna get it on but you don't wanna rush things *grrr!* righty, here goes, if you wanna have some kind of sexual feelings i sugguest the clitoris thing too, its just at the top of your vagina, below the pelvic bone in the middle, it kind of sticks out slightly, have a fiddle around with that and you wont break your himan at all trust me, its nice and you wont get found out iether if being a vurgin is important to your marage. pm me if you want more advice, i will answer if i can.. thnx, good luck with the wedding, let me know how you get on, will you be wairing a sari? i love them they are made of really beautiful material. and i love indian wimin's hair too it feels so beautiful and silky and shiny. will you be wairing a bindi too? don't know if your a hindue too or not. just curious. pm me if you want advice or anything like that or even just to talk, i am on msn too. talk to me there if you want to. i love learning about different cultures and stuff, i'd love to go to India some time. i love the music there, i play music too maybe that's why. take care {{{hugs}}} lizzie xxx
uhhh, you marrying you cousin ?... not to mention the fact thats gross as hell but you can really mess up your kids jeans that way.
cute sania, get in there!!!! high five!!! well dun!! so, how was it, was it all righty? i hope it was for you any way, wasn't too painful was it? once again, get in there!! wish i had your pulling power, persuasive or what!! {{{hugs}}} l xxx
yeh, you've gotta tell us, we wanna wanna wanna wanna wanna know! well, i do anyway so cute sania, spill!
As I am from a different culture, it's hard for me to understand this fully. However hard I try, I can't comprehend someone tolerating being told who to marry. Do you mind being told who to marry? How is it right for another person to decide who you're going to spend the rest of your life with - shouldn't that be your decision? Futher, a cousin is an immediate blood-relative, and so there is a risk of children you have together being retarted because of the closeness of genes. I'm not trying to be rude here, but to understand how someone could tolerate being controlled like this.
that's what happens in indian cultures though you have aranged marages but i new an indian girl once who's parents had had an aranged marage but didn't want her to go thrue the same thing, they wanted her to find her own husband, they lived in the uk though so maybe that had something to do with it
sorry friend for such a late rply yes i told u the first sex was fun pain and pleasure i was feeling the bad pain and then a stop it feeling then a continue feleing well i also came to know several secrets about guys too good the greates thing is we do it frequently now thanks to all i tried to get him in mood and tried to do all things possible and even become shame less to get him in mood it was pleasure and now i reallize that it is not just about penetrationnnnn it is about the love u show in sex about the secrets u reviel in sex about the things u fondle in sex about the things u touch by ur lips (every were) about the wetness of ur PARTS about the realization of ur responsiblity and matuity about ur love for him about ur urge to not only get satisfied but also to satisfy ur love in the best way in sex about THE DIRT U SPILL ALL AROUND (KIDDDING ) in sex AND ABOUT THE about the "touch" thanks to u all i did not reply since so many days sorryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
I am sorry that you are a product of a crazy culture and you feel that way. Damn that is a fucked up situation you have been raised in. I wish you could get away from that incestuous joint family crap. But, in your case I think he is a stand up guy, and religion is very important to some people. YOu should just take it easy girl, and hold out for a better life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PS I am also sorry I am close-minded about your culture and should not judge, but this is just my opinion.
well 1st of all being 16 is to young for sex... i know because im 16 and a virgin and i know that there are to many things in life to throw away because of sex...i have witnessed this with my family.... and are u being forced to marry him because of your religion?
