Alright Im having sort of a situation thats kinda embrassing. I belive this forum is a good route to take for advice. Most people seem pretty mature and there is alot to learn here. I myself have just started having sex not very long ago. My problem which is most likley due to inexperience is giving her pleasure during intercourse. When I insert, penetrate her, there is little to no pleasure induced. She does not seem to get pleasure at all and I myself find it hard to get much of a sensation. This has happened with 2 girls one of them being a virgin. It is pretty embarassing and deff kills the mood. I have been wondering what the deal may be. I thought about size as the most obvious problem. Im only 6 inches and I wouldn't give alot of credit to width as well. Does size really matter to that extent? Maybe it is the motion of my ocean which is fucked up. Im asking gurls/ guys in this forums for any tips to give these ladies pleasure during intercourse. Foreplay has been never an issue for me. Yet sexual intercourse has really been a dissappointment for me. Any advice or tips would be great! Thanks guys!
hey bigtreez, i know part of your problum, because when i get too turned on i have difficulty getting sensation because of the amount of fluid that i looz, personally i'd kiss her while rubbing her clit at the same time that always works for me if nothing else does ps kissing always goes down a storm, mmm!!! especially with lots of tongue!! ooo yes yes yes¬!!
I would agree with lizziet84. Also a lot of foreplay could help, I know that always gets me super turned on and everything feels good.
Bigtreez - sounds like you are still a teenager. Sexual intercourse is something anyone can do but few do well. You can read about it in books, and that may help...but there is no substitute for experience. And it takes two to do it well. the best lover in the world cannot perform well if his partner is not responding. My philosophy is to make love through a woman not to a woman. Focus on pleasuring her, and derive your pleasure by making her respond well. Too many guys are just masturbating inside a woman when they have sex, and they don't really care about what she is feeling. The more sexual experience you have the better it will be for you. And with different partners you will explore different means of pleasuring your partner and achieving it yourself, as every woman is different. A hint - learn about the "g spot".
You say that 4play has never been a problem, but I bet it is The Problem.It is sortta obvious that with exciting enough 4play, intercourse would pop you both. Cutted has the right idea as far as your responsibility: you are pleasuring her. Period. A guy can find pleasure on almost a moment's notice, no big deal. Have you sought out her clit with your tongue? Have you asked her where and how she wants what? Have you completely given your full attention to her. No thought of 'now it's my turn,' or 'in oral, I'll go first.' How much time do you spend on her breasts? Is a shower together among you moments of bliss? Rimming, slurping, licking, kissing everywhere......If you expect her to pleasure you with attention on your immediate enjoyent, it's time for a change!
