i am at such a loss here, please help me

this girl i really love, i mean love, for the past like2 years, i know i love her, and in the 8th grade i asked her out a couple times and she sed no
this year, in 10th grade i find myself falling in love with her again and i asked her one day if there would ever be a chance for us and she sed she didnt see why not and then i told her how ill always lover her and everything about her and she was really flattered and sed she wishes everyone in the world was like me. today, since she broke up with her bf about 4 days ago, i asked her if there really will be a chance for us. and she sed shes not dating anyone right now, because she has trust issues cuz almost all of her past bfs have cheated on her and treated her like shit. and i told her i would never do that and everything and she sed she heard that from all of her other bfs. and she sed i just need to learn to trust ppl, its something i need to do on my own. and i dont know what to do, if shes bullshitting me, and if i can prove my love for her. cuz in 8th grade i asked her out and she sed she wasnt sure and would get back to me and the next day she was dating someone else. so help me please

 

I remember feeling just like that. I think you're being too ardent and getting too hung up on this girl. Try and take a step back, don't tell her you love her all the time, you'll scare her off if she's not sure how she feels, be nice and fun and smile, keep it friendly, give her some space, and bear in mind you won't always feel this way. Take a look around you, i bet there's some other brilliant girls.
believe me i've been there. If you always got what you want, you'd regret it!
peace X

 

yea, thanks

 

erm, dude, if she's said that she wasnt sure about you two...then started seeing someone else the day after, that's gotta' show she's just playing you. as harsh, and painful, as it may sound- to me, it seems she's got pleanty of 'attention' from the opposite sex, and she's (not essentially mind) using you. using you in the way that if she needs someone, to make her feel better, to love her, to pick her up...you are the one. but its gotta' be mutual dude, and it doesnt seem like that.

best advice, bail outta' it. it'll be hard, but its better in the long run...
im two years older, been in a very similar situation, and i cant even move on from her... 'cos i 'held' on to her words ("its just me, im sorry, but i'd rather let you know when my heads sorted"...meanwhile, she's out with a bunch of c*nt assed lads)

...but thats just me, maybe im wrong & she really likes you, wants to be with you, wants to hold you etc...but more than likely, she's not.

take it easy bud
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and yeah, ive just re-read Spej's comment...take it easy with her, dont rush it and give all your feelings to her at once. you've made the first step, next step is for her to make one towards you...then you, then her...till you're together [=

...but, im still stickin with my comment...along with that. confusing, i know *you can slap me*

 

yeah, the day i posted that i was really bummed and shit but im feelin better, thanks a lot i really appreciate your advice dude