I'm so sick of the bar scene

it's all drama. my friend's "fuck buddy" found out he had chlamidia. that sucks. haha

 

Doesn't drama suck? That's why I hang out with a lotta straight dudes. Guys are too apathetic to let something amount to anything dramatic, you piss them off, they aren't going to spread some horrible rumor about you, they're going to deck you and that's the last you'll hear of it.

 

thats so true. when i was in high school i only hung out with guys... but since i moved in with my boyfriend he isnt too fond of that so i have been trying to rekindle my friendships with my girlfriends. its kinda cool but mostly gayy. and i dont mean that in a homophobic way, i just cant think of a better word.... bitches.

 

Yeah I got tired of the typical bar/club scene and all that years ago... probably around your age. Still like going out to really chill pubs and stuff now and then but can do without typical drama for sure.

 

When i'm 21, i'm not even looking forward to going out to the bars. ok, i lied.. i'll maybe go to the bars sometimes, but not often, because i hate drama. i'm with you on hanging out with only guy thing. thats how i always was, and thats how i'll always be. girls are just too fucking catty and will bitch at everything. guys just don't care, and thats how i like it! haha

 

That's exactly why most of my friends are guys. But that's not to say that my life would be completely drama-free. Unfortunately.

 

I was never into the bar scene. I could probably count on one hand how many times I've even been in a bar. :&

 

And when you hang out with guy friends, you never end up in that 'I saw him first, he's mine!!' situation.

 

Girls are typically a lot more drama-y than guys are.

The bar scene, eh... I just go to dance with my girls and have fun, we typically ignore men around there and have a good time. No fuckbuddies, hell, one of my friends is married. The fact that we aren't there to find someone really reduces drama.

 

I can't even count how many times I've been to one on one hand. Unless you count that time we went to a pool hall that served alcohol. Then one. Haha.

 

Haha this post reminds me of my sister. She is the queen bee of drama. She is always telling me these dramatic stories and how she is soooo sick of it. Like everytime she goes to a bar the guys just fight over her and the girls glare at her. Of course, I know her stories are always fabricated, but she tells me these stories as if it annoys her. I basically tell her to be quiet because I know how much of an attention whore she is,sometimes in those exact words. If somebody is really sick of a situation they put themselves in, I am inclinded to think they are capable of taking themselves out of it. Isn't that the easiest and most dramatic free way of resolving the issue? Maybe my way of thinking is skewed?

 

no you're so right. It's just that there's not much else to do around here. so i suppose I can either sit at home and be bored, or go out to the bar and deal with drama. some days I do one, some days the other. drama seems to follow me either way though.

 

I've never been a big fan of the "meat market" type bars, maybe been to those once or twice in my life... when I go out to somewhere with booze it's usually the pub style sit and drink with buddies places, or a licensed pool hall/bowling alley or wedding socials etc...

I can't imagine why anyone would want to pick someone up at a bar... no offense to anyone that met their soul mate at a bar, but IMO it seems stupid to get drunk off your ass so you can't make any good decisions and then hook up with someone else in the same position. You don't know anything about them except the bullshit they told you in the few minutes you remember talking to them, and then you go pick up a few STDs in a bathroom stall...

At least one girl I know picked up some guy at a bar and conceived a kid within a week or two of meeting him... and guess what? The guy is a deadbeat and long gone of course... wow what a surprise... (lots of sarcasm)

Bars are good places to hang out with friends, but not much more than that...

 

Bars, unless they are badass beach front bars in hip towns, are silly places.

 

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i hate drama :&
i perfer clubs to bars because i love to dance, but i like bars with pool tables cause i like to play pool
i really hate drama, i hate pussy footing around a problem, when we could get it right out in the open and be done with it in 10 mins...alot of my friends don't see it that way, they'd rather be angry at me behind my back :&
i'm too oblivious to drama, if someone doesn't tell me i'm acting like an ass or they have a problem with me i don't know..i need someone to slap me in my face

 

You play pool? I bet I can kick your ass!

 

yeah. i'm usually dragged along to a bar to run the cock-block. it's kinda nice to be set aside. you don't have to buy any drinks. but the naked bitches i babysit can be so exhausting. otherwise i just go with dave, and we have a fucking blast. we're absolutely each other's best drinking buddy. mostly i hang out with dave's friends and stuff, because they're really funny and they already like me.

 

hahaha kc you're a cock block?
i'm more of a wing man :H

dude you'd probably beat me at pool at first and then we'd bet some money and i'd start kicking your ass

 

We'll see... we'll need a couple of beers first though... the beer inspires me to kick ass.

I was backpacking in Guatemala, went into a British bar... drank a couple of beers, and then shot some pool around with this guy... and I was shooting really well for some reason. Then comes this big guy with a beard... looked like a hell's angel, ya know... bar champion at pool, apparently. So we play, play, play... and I will the first two... but then everything goes wrong. "Sweet Child O' Mine" starts playing on the radio, and I just think "What the fuck is that song doing on the radio?", it just came on all of the sudden, and this drunk British couple starts singing it right next to the table... so I take a shot, miss terribly... and then loose the next two. Ended up in a draw because I had to bike back to my hostel to meet a lady friend... I left town the next day, but one day... I will be back there to finish that one match!