My girl and I have recently started experimenting with anal play, with eachother. I rimmed her for the first time a few weeks ago, which was a huge turn on for the both of us- this helped to get her into the idea of enjoying anal sex (she always thought it would be painful for her). I suggested that we just play with eachother lightly, before it is something we really get into. What I have discovered is I LOVE it when she inserts a well lubed finger into me while having sex or touching me. It took a while before she actually penetrated me and stimulated my prostate (DAMN that is an intense feeling), but I actually find something very erotic about being filled and fucked at the same time. I am strait (though we fantasize about having a bi mm-f threesome one day), and first had negative thoughts about enjoying being touched that way. Im quickly getting over it =) She has not really rimmed me yet- but I cannot wait to try it! The thought of her wet, warm tounge tickling and probing my ass while she plays with my dick is a huge turn on for me. I want her very badly to use a lot of lube and a smaller dildo on me. Should I try this on my own first? How should I bring this up?
Well, I would try it out myself to see if I like it, but if you guys are already experimenting with anal play I don't see why she wouldn't want to do this. Good luck to you guys!
Thank you.. I appreciate the encouragement! I hope the lady will agree ( at least to do so, in the future) Maybe Ill buy one for my self and try.
My wife always uses an anal toy(Spectragels Vibrating Anal Tool, Anal E-Z Bend, Anal T or Anal Beads) on me to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms. Anal toys work better than fingers. Remember to use lots of lube. My wife loves to do this. Sometimes she will also have a vibrating dildo in her pussy. Nothing gay about this type of anal sex. I am straight as an arrow.
I would always encourage self exploration first. Know your feelings and your body and you will have a much better time.
